How to ask FSIL

I was wondering if anyone could help me out. I have seen many ways on how to ask others to be in their bridal parties EXCEPT your FSIL- we are not close so mushy would not work in this case- Any input would be great!

Thanks Ladies

Welll... I think his sister just assumed I would have her in the party so when I went to ask she kinda just told me. lol

Gosh I wish it was that easy! They are so not the approcable type- I.e. when we got engaged one said very sarcastically i know!

Everyone has the FMIL from he** I have it the other way lol

You welcomed me with open arms
When I was strange and new.
A smile so warm and so sincere,
Caring, trusting and true.

A friendship would blossom
With each passing day.
Growing stronger and brighter
In many a way.

Engaged am I now
To your brother at last.
And for you, NAME, I have
A special question to ask.

When spring 2008 is here
And I will be a blushing bride.
Would you do me the great honor
As maid on my side?



...it might be too mushy ??

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Posted by MissO22


...it might be too mushy ??

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what a sweet and thoughtful poem!!!! did you make that up by your lonesome?

lol nope i found it online i forgot where tho??

if i made it up it prob wouldn't be that sweet haha jk i love all 3 FSILs

mine didn't let me ask her, she kinda told me she was a BM

oh well

I found this one that i think i like better...and its not as mushy!!


The day that I marry, our families will blend,
you'll be my sister and also my friend.

It's so very special to know you will be,
a part of this day, a bridesmaid for me.

It's just the beginning, of our brand new life,
as your brother and I, become man and wife.

Thank you for adding to my joy.

OMG Miss that the last poem is perfect I might have to tweek the last lione but its great

Thanks so much for all your input