How to respond to stupid people during RSVP time

I have already anticipated those stupid responses ( Not sure if I can come, I might come, etc.)
and have decided that my answer will be the following NO matter who it is: (And this will actually prevent any drama)

'Oh ok, well how about we do this, I will put you down as a no for now. If something should change the week of the wedding, you give me a call and im sure we could figure something out. ok, no problem babe! TTYL ' .

... and then should they have the nerve to call me back a week before the wedding i will either 1) Not pick up my phone (I am soooo busy) or 2) kindly say 'Oh, I am so sorry but my room capacity is maxed out and my hall will kill me if I add another person. Aww... Wish you could be there but you will be there in mind and spirit ! TTYL '


I am too blessed to be stressed. The hell with them.

Sounds good to me!!

Rock on

I should notebook this and remember it in June!

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B



I have already anticipated those stupid responses ( Not sure if I can come, I might come, etc.)
and have decided that my answer will be the following NO matter who it is: (And this will actually prevent any drama)

'Oh ok, well how about we do this, I will put you down as a no for now. If something should change the week of the wedding, you give me a call and im sure we could figure something out. ok, no problem babe! TTYL ' .

... and then should they have the nerve to call me back a week before the wedding i will either 1) Not pick up my phone (I am soooo busy) or 2) kindly say 'Oh, I am so sorry but my room capacity is maxed out and my hall will kill me if I add another person. Aww... Wish you could be there but you will be there in mind and spirit ! TTYL '


I am too blessed to be stressed. The hell with them.

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GRRRRREEEEEEAT idea

Love it!

Thats awesome!

sounds like a plan to me

and the best thing is, that let's say you happen to be below your minimum, and they DO call you, then you can add them.

You could of not had planned it better!!! PPL just think others will wait for them...

I feel the same way!!!

Did you send yours out yet. You are the day before me.. i am finisshing them up tonight and sending them all out tomorrow...

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Posted by sharivera

I feel the same way!!!

Did you send yours out yet. You are the day before me.. i am finisshing them up tonight and sending them all out tomorrow...

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I am so jealous! I am having so many problems getting my proofs from Carlton Craft. They promised I was going to have it by 'yesterday' and it's now 4:45 pm and still no damn proof!!!
I am trying really hard NOT to flip out and start going all bridezilla. 'hopefully' my guests should have them before January 20. My rsvp date is Feb. 15.

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Posted by VickiR510

Thats exactly what i said. Thankfully, i havent had to deal with many of these just 3 or 4 couples. Babysitter probs or people that have things scheduled & waiting to see if they can change it etc. But only 4 couples isnt so bad . I gave them until the end of Jan to let me know. Anything after that SORRY YOU'RE OUT!

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Yeah 4 couples isnt bad at all. There is no need to argue w. people. Once the wedding is over people do get back to 'normal' life. lol. You must be so excited! You are almost 1 month away!!!!

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B



I have already anticipated those stupid responses ( Not sure if I can come, I might come, etc.)
and have decided that my answer will be the following NO matter who it is: (And this will actually prevent any drama)

'Oh ok, well how about we do this, I will put you down as a no for now. If something should change the week of the wedding, you give me a call and im sure we could figure something out. ok, no problem babe! TTYL ' .

... and then should they have the nerve to call me back a week before the wedding i will either 1) Not pick up my phone (I am soooo busy) or 2) kindly say 'Oh, I am so sorry but my room capacity is maxed out and my hall will kill me if I add another person. Aww... Wish you could be there but you will be there in mind and spirit ! TTYL '


I am too blessed to be stressed. The hell with them.

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Girl you have been missing from my life...lol...I know wedding plans got you crazy! I want my coffee!!!!

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Posted by Mrs. Bernabe

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B



I have already anticipated those stupid responses ( Not sure if I can come, I might come, etc.)
and have decided that my answer will be the following NO matter who it is: (And this will actually prevent any drama)

'Oh ok, well how about we do this, I will put you down as a no for now. If something should change the week of the wedding, you give me a call and im sure we could figure something out. ok, no problem babe! TTYL ' .

... and then should they have the nerve to call me back a week before the wedding i will either 1) Not pick up my phone (I am soooo busy) or 2) kindly say 'Oh, I am so sorry but my room capacity is maxed out and my hall will kill me if I add another person. Aww... Wish you could be there but you will be there in mind and spirit ! TTYL '


I am too blessed to be stressed. The hell with them.

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Girl you have been missing from my life...lol...I know wedding plans got you crazy! I want my coffee!!!!

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OMG, you know I finally logged on to myspace since like FOREVER b.c my stupid internet connection wasnt working at home....anyway, completely forgot we were supposed to meet up. LOL. I'm such a flake. lol. But listen we do have to talk especially about the mortgage situation. Some updates

I love that plan!

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B

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Posted by Mrs. Bernabe

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B



I have already anticipated those stupid responses ( Not sure if I can come, I might come, etc.)
and have decided that my answer will be the following NO matter who it is: (And this will actually prevent any drama)

'Oh ok, well how about we do this, I will put you down as a no for now. If something should change the week of the wedding, you give me a call and im sure we could figure something out. ok, no problem babe! TTYL ' .

... and then should they have the nerve to call me back a week before the wedding i will either 1) Not pick up my phone (I am soooo busy) or 2) kindly say 'Oh, I am so sorry but my room capacity is maxed out and my hall will kill me if I add another person. Aww... Wish you could be there but you will be there in mind and spirit ! TTYL '


I am too blessed to be stressed. The hell with them.

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Girl you have been missing from my life...lol...I know wedding plans got you crazy! I want my coffee!!!!

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OMG, you know I finally logged on to myspace since like FOREVER b.c my stupid internet connection wasnt working at home....anyway, completely forgot we were supposed to meet up. LOL. I'm such a flake. lol. But listen we do have to talk especially about the mortgage situation. Some updates

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tell me when...damn girl..I'm out of school. I have to put oils in my car today and I might go to bellydance class tomorrow...so whenever..you let me know. We really have to talk!! FM when your free