How to write shower thank yous

cds58019 Posted: Apr 27, 2008 10:19 PM

How to write shower thank yous

So Im already getting started on my shower thank you's (go me!) but Im not sure how to write them...Do I address it to only the woman who was at the shower? Or should I write it to both Aunt Linda and Uncle Joe? Then I was thinkin maybe I'll just address it to whoever's names were on the card. So for example if Aunt Linda was the one who was there but signed the card from both of them then I'll address it to both of them. And vice versa if she only signed her name. I hope this makes sense. What did you girls do?

Oh and one more, do I sign it from just me or from me and FH?

bella1028 Posted: Apr 27, 2008 10:21 PM

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i just wrote them to the woman unless there was a man on the card....like my aunt put both her and my uncle's name, so i wrote it to both of them....most were just the women though

cds58019 Posted: Apr 27, 2008 10:34 PM

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Ok, thanks. Thats what I figured but I wanted to see what other people did.

Wifeynella Posted: Apr 28, 2008 12:10 AM

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you usually write it from you to the woman, unless the card was written out to both you and FH and/or was signed from th woman and her SO

you address it to the woman only no matter what.

Randilotus Posted: Apr 28, 2008 12:19 AM

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I agree, write exactly what the card says. And if the card was written to you and husband then include him too.

MrsD71208 Posted: Apr 28, 2008 06:37 AM

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For aunts and uncles I wrote both names, but for the other guests that aren't close family, I wrote just the woman's name *unless specified on the card that it was from the husband too*. I wrote a thank you with a personalized message and a mention to the gift they bought me. I signed it from the both of us because the presents ARE for us both lol *Although I like to believe that many of them were for me! lol *

Snick n Nick Posted: Apr 28, 2008 08:37 AM

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Ok so I wrote all of them to the woman from me....guess maybe I should have noticed the other stuff, but I think it's really ok either way...!

mariaobride Posted: Apr 28, 2008 08:39 AM

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Posted by bella1028

i just wrote them to the woman unless there was a man on the card....like my aunt put both her and my uncle's name, so i wrote it to both of them....most were just the women though

me too I did the same exact thing and if you don't address the man I am sure they won't get offended