How will you deal with people at your job who are not getting an invitation to your wedding?
I work for an organization that my mom previously used to work for so there are quite a few people who have known me since I was a little girl.
HOWEVER (this seems to be my trademark! lol)
That does not mean that everyone is getting an invitation because: 1) We're just not 'cool like that' 2)If I invite everyone I know just because I know them, i'll be paying for this wedding the rest of my breathing days.
I'm already looking forward to the evil eyes that will come my way but hey! It is what it is, right?
T E R I
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I'm friendly with alot of people at work, but i have a group of 6 that i am really close with, i talk to them daily and have lunch with them almost everyday. They already know that they are invited to the wedding, if i stay at the company or not-because i know i will stay close with them if i were to leave
to everyone else that is not invited-oh well-i don't really care, i will deal with the evil eyes
JoanneAndJustin
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I have a no co-worker policy for my wedding. You are my co-worker not my friend, so you will not be invited to my wedding. We're just not 'cool like that' (tm-original poster).
Goldie39
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lol @ windy's comment!
Christine N Ralph
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I had this issue...because we had an eparty...and people knew about it- but many of them understood that it would have been impossible to invite everyone. Most people understand (at least in my experience)
eternitybride
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A lot will depend on the relationships with people I work with at the time. At my last job, everyone in my office probably would (and probably still will) be invited. However, some good responses I have heard that I will have to use (not just with office workers) are
We would love to have everyone with us, but there is a limit on the hall and we both have large families.
Unfortunately, due to the hall we cant invite everyone that we would like to.
We are keeping it very small, just family and family friends.
Or, one of the women in my office got married this past October, everyone was invited but one person, and it just wasn't talked about in the office.
stinenandy2010
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Since we live in Connecticut, I don't think we are inviting any coworkers. Its just easier that way.
JC297
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I work in a small office and I'm only inviting the people I like. I wouldnt want to have someone there on my day that I dont care for nor would I want a person feel obligated to go just because we work together. From the very beginning when I spoke of my wedding, I told everyone that we were having a small wedding and that FH and I were paying for everything ourselve so it just is what it is.
