I have been so upset since Saturday night. I had my b-party this weekend & one of my friends who I invited said she couldn't come because she had no money. Mind you, she is married & when it was her b-party I went to all of the festivites & spent about $500. At the time I was a full time student & working part time. After she said no because she is 'broke' another friend of ours offered to cover her for the night & she still refused. While sitting at dinner Saturday night, I went on facebook to update my status & her status was: 'headin out for a night with Good Friends.' I am so upset. She obviously lied to me. If she had plans she could have just said, I have prior plans instead of saying she is 'broke.'
(BTW: dinner came out to $65 per peron)
Would you be hurt if this happened to you?? Would you say something to her about it???
AngnShaun
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well she lied to you and then posted something where she knew you would see it... i would be more than hurt... i'd be furious...
ETA: I would definitely say something like... how did the good times with your 'good friends' go on Saturday... or something bitchy like that...
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Posted by AngnShaun
well she lied to you and then posted something where she knew you would see it... i would be more than hurt... i'd be furious...
ETA: I would definitely say something like... how did the good times with your 'good friends' go on Saturday... or something bitchy like that...
Pretty much
StaceyWill
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Yes, I’d be hurt if that happened to me. And no, I wouldn’t say anything because people just suk and you shouldn’t waste your breath!!
Sorry
Sandradv121
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I would be completely ticked off. Thats rude. And so inconsiderate.
FutureCap
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i would be very hurt and considering she annoucned to to the world on FB, i would totally say something. very messed up
AwaitingAugust
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i would be very upset about it ... and i would probably bring it up, but in a nice way (without getting angry and/or nasty).
marinai7
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Yeah, I would definitely be upset. If she asks how the bachelorette party went, I would ask her how was your night out with the girls? She could have just been honest with you.
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Posted by AngnShaun
well she lied to you and then posted something where she knew you would see it... i would be more than hurt... i'd be furious...
ETA: I would definitely say something like... how did the good times with your 'good friends' go on Saturday... or something bitchy like that...
completely agree... fuming!!
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I would be beyond pissed. I have no patience for lying. You should have posted something on her page as soon as you saw that like 'awesome, where you headed, maybe we can meet up!?' lol..
jackieee
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Yes, I would be hurt and pissssed. I hate when people lie.
If it's a good friend, I think I would say something. Good luck!!
runnerbride1023
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you should comment on her status on facebook...
maybe something like:
Hope you were able to have a fun night out even though you were too broke to come out for my B-Party! And btw i had the best night ever!
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Yea I would be hurt, I would most def say something about it. I wouldnt let her know how much it bothered me though I would make it seem like it was not that big of a deal. I would use her words thoug and be like 'I had so much fun on Sat with my good friends'
MayBride2010
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That is just real sh*tty...
I would be extremely hurt and pissed...
halfbaked
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I'd be fuming!
AdriandSteve
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Honestly, I wouldn't jump to conclusions.
Just because someone said they went out with good friends doesn't mean she had to spend $ and doesn't mean she lied to you. If I couldn't go to a friends bparty cuz I had no $ that doesn't mean I was going to sit home all night and not do anything. I would probably still go out. But going out could be sitting at someone's house watching tv. I can also understand her saying no to your friend offering to cover her for the night. Some people just aren't comfortable accepting $ like that, me being one of them.
I wouldn't say anything b/c your just going on assumptions and nothing can come of it. It can't change the fact that she wasn't there and went out that night.
Jmo
christine2010
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My sister posted on her status: 'we are missing you here at the bachelorette party.'
her response: 'awww wish i was there!! make it up to u girls at the wedding!
I think thats bull shi+. If she wishes she was there, wouldn't she have figured out a way to come?? No we are not making it up at the wedding. You will be there with your husband & I will be in my big wedding gown. I am not going to be drinking & doing shots at the bar all night long.
mariedsgn
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that is sooooooo rude! who would do that?!!!
mybabylovesmoi
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I'm sorry, but she sounds like a classless idiot! Who lies and then outs herself on facebook???
I'm sure you had a better time without her there.
And to answer your question, I'd be PISSEDDDD and hurt. I wouldn't even bother getting an explanation since she'd probably lie about her reasons.
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Posted by AdriandSteve
Honestly, I wouldn't jump to conclusions.
Just because someone said they went out with good friends doesn't mean she had to spend $ and doesn't mean she lied to you. If I couldn't go to a friends bparty cuz I had no $ that doesn't mean I was going to sit home all night and not do anything. I would probably still go out. But going out could be sitting at someone's house watching tv. I can also understand her saying no to your friend offering to cover her for the night. Some people just aren't comfortable accepting $ like that, me being one of them.
I wouldn't say anything b/c your just going on assumptions and nothing can come of it. It can't change the fact that she wasn't there and went out that night.
Jmo
We confirmed that she went out. My other friend, T had her husband call this girls husband to see if he wanted to 'hang out' since T was out with me. The girls husband said, 'Nah, not tonight I am watching the baby because wife is out with so & so at such & such bar.'
