How would you feel about this? EWWW Factor

How would you feel about this? EWWW Factor

So last night FH went out with his friend 'bob' and I stayed home because I had to work today.

This morning FH told me that 'bob' showed him a video of a close up of a girl masturbating. Then the 'bob' tells him that the girl is 'Skanker.'

'Skanker' is someone that we both know (but aren't friends with) who apparently sent this video to 'Bob' to entice him . Apparently, she's been sending him stuff like this for months and 'Bob' has been trying to dodge her because she has a baby with his friend (They recently broke up).

Anyway, my first reaction was disgust but than I was pretty pissed at 'bob' for showing FH this. 'Bob' regularly sends or shows FH stupid stuff but I feel that genitals of a girl we both know was crossing the line.

I'm not mad at FH since he told me in more of a 'OMG, listen to this scandal' kind of way but I'm still pretty grossed out and pi$$ed at bob. I get along with 'bob' pretty well and don't know if I should tell him that I think he crossed a line.

Yuck.

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def disgusting of bob to do such a thing....

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Ewww, I would have to say something to Bob

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I really want to say something to 'bob' but honestly, I love how FH tells me everything and doesn't think twice about doing so - even when it's nasty stuff like this.

I don't want to jeapordize that by potentially having his friend get mad at him and make FH second guess telling me about boy stuff in the future Like I said, we don't see this girl often but really, does FH need to know what her vajayjay looks like??

Also, what the hell was she thinking??? It's one thing to share taht stuff with a boyfriend but to send it to someone who hasn't even taken you on a date? Of course that shiet's going to be passed around!

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Posted by GP83

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Posted by angelscri

Ewww, I would have to say something to Bob

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I wouldnt b/c FH told you, not Bob...

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yes, exactly

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very smart woman!!!! its better he is open with you oppose to hiding ishh all the time

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I would feel like I would want to scream at bob that's pretty screwed up

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Do NOT saying anything to 'bob'. This is what guys do, and they think nothing of it. There are some 'skanks' out there. I don't think that 'bob' would even realize that he did anything wrong (a guys way of thinking). 'Bob' just wanted to share the weirdness with your FH. I would be pissed too, but at least FH was honest with you, and that is great.

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That is really disgusting and def crossing the line showing it to your FH!! Especially cause u both know who the girl is! GROSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I wouldn't say anything to Bob. Don't make it like you are your Fh's mother and you don't approve of him looking at things like that. I feel bad for the girl, but then again she did send it to him. Gross!!!!

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Posted by SquareandPea

Do NOT saying anything to 'bob'. This is what guys do, and they think nothing of it. There are some 'skanks' out there. I don't think that 'bob' would even realize that he did anything wrong (a guys way of thinking). 'Bob' just wanted to share the weirdness with your FH. I would be pissed too, but at least FH was honest with you, and that is great.

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I definitely agree that bob is clueless sometimes about what is inappropriate and was sharing this video because it is weirdness as you perfectly put it! I'm not going to say anything. I may not like it but as you say, it's just what guys do sometimes

eta: however, if he EVER showed FH something like this while I was there, he'd definitely hear a few choice words

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You know what, at least you didn't get the 'Bob' in this situation. I know that some of FH's friends share this kind of stuff with him, even some of the guys at work. FH tells me about it too in a disgusted way, but unfortunately you just can't change these guys, just be glad that FH is disgusted by it.

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Posted by VCanizalez

Its not like he saw ths woman and was like 'OMG WOW So good...'

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I burst out laughing when I read this line. She is not hot at all so it was definitely more of a 'HOLY SHIET, LOOK AT THIS CAR ACCIDENT' type of situation.

nasty. I willl never be able to look her in the eyes again if I ever run into her. I wonder if she knows/cares that this video is probably been seen by dozens of guys in the same social circle

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uuum yuck!

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I dont think you should say anything to Bob. Your FH is a grown man and if he is not interested in seeing such videos he should be the one to tell Bob not you.

but i have to say Bob really needs to get a life and it is very good that FH is very open with you.