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then I wouldn't want them in my BP anyways!!!
Posted by Kurtsk8
then I wouldn't want them in my BP anyways!!!
Posted by cherish83
Posted by Kurtsk8
then I wouldn't want them in my BP anyways!!!
Yup! If they aren't excited to be in the BP then they are going to put damper on all the wedding planning and not be there for you as a BM should.
Posted by florezpeeps
Posted by cherish83
Posted by Kurtsk8
then I wouldn't want them in my BP anyways!!!
Yup! If they aren't excited to be in the BP then they are going to put damper on all the wedding planning and not be there for you as a BM should.
YES this is my initial reaction too! Actually the person gave me a 'we'll see-in a year!'....ummm well see nothing cuz the invitation is closed!!!![]()
Posted by Kurtsk8
then I wouldn't want them in my BP anyways!!!
Posted by florezpeeps
I guess ppl don't realize that a dress has to be ordered way more in advanced than in a year when it'll be just a few short months until your wedding lol. AHHHH just surround yourself with people who are happy for you and excited to be a part of your bp, LIKE ME![]()
Posted by florezpeeps
Someone giving you a LAME A** excuse for not participating in your BP![]()
Posted by ant n tilde
i wouldn't be offended at all - actually, i think it is so great that someone could say No instead of being pressure into saying yes and maybe backing out or causing problems later on.
i totally respect that actually - being in a BP is so expensive - and it takes up a lot of time. so even tho you are happy for the bride - it is better to know that you cant handle it at the moment and avoid stress for her later on
for example - my sister and i decided together that she would not be in my BP for financial and time constraint reasons - that does NOT mean she isnt happy for me. . .she is my biggest supporter![]()
Posted by ant n tilde
i wouldn't be offended at all - actually, i think it is so great that someone could say No instead of being pressure into saying yes and maybe backing out or causing problems later on.
i totally respect that actually - being in a BP is so expensive - and it takes up a lot of time. so even tho you are happy for the bride - it is better to know that you cant handle it at the moment and avoid stress for her later on
for example - my sister and i decided together that she would not be in my BP for financial and time constraint reasons - that does NOT mean she isnt happy for me. . .she is my biggest supporter![]()
Posted by Espo22
Posted by ant n tilde
i wouldn't be offended at all - actually, i think it is so great that someone could say No instead of being pressure into saying yes and maybe backing out or causing problems later on.
i totally respect that actually - being in a BP is so expensive - and it takes up a lot of time. so even tho you are happy for the bride - it is better to know that you cant handle it at the moment and avoid stress for her later on
for example - my sister and i decided together that she would not be in my BP for financial and time constraint reasons - that does NOT mean she isnt happy for me. . .she is my biggest supporter![]()
what if the person had ALOT of money lol
i would look for someone else who WANTS to be part of it! You dont need someone who doesnt wanna be there! My friend had a BM like that who felt Obligated to be in the wedding party and a few mnths after asking her she sat her down and said hey if u dont wanna do this dont! no biggie! and the girl said ok no thanks! she found someone else!
Posted by Mizzdimple
WOW......You should let her let you know in a year then...![]()
Posted by femmes
Posted by florezpeeps
Someone giving you a LAME A** excuse for not participating in your BP![]()
I would think its better that they said no, they would probably turn out to be one of those people who cause problems with a BP anyway. your better off..
Posted by florezpeeps
Posted by ant n tilde
i wouldn't be offended at all - actually, i think it is so great that someone could say No instead of being pressure into saying yes and maybe backing out or causing problems later on.
i totally respect that actually - being in a BP is so expensive - and it takes up a lot of time. so even tho you are happy for the bride - it is better to know that you cant handle it at the moment and avoid stress for her later on
for example - my sister and i decided together that she would not be in my BP for financial and time constraint reasons - that does NOT mean she isnt happy for me. . .she is my biggest supporter![]()
ok, the important part you missed is 'lame excuse', i would respect a valid excuse blindly![]()
Posted by florezpeeps
Posted by Espo22
Posted by ant n tilde
i wouldn't be offended at all - actually, i think it is so great that someone could say No instead of being pressure into saying yes and maybe backing out or causing problems later on.
i totally respect that actually - being in a BP is so expensive - and it takes up a lot of time. so even tho you are happy for the bride - it is better to know that you cant handle it at the moment and avoid stress for her later on
for example - my sister and i decided together that she would not be in my BP for financial and time constraint reasons - that does NOT mean she isnt happy for me. . .she is my biggest supporter![]()
what if the person had ALOT of money lol
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