How's this?
How's this? Should I speak w/ her face to face? I'm afraid if I do, she might not have time to absorb it before she answers me...
Betsy,
I hope all is going well. I know you have been very busy latley, school, work, and wedding planning of your own. I was thinking, maybe being my maid of honor could possible be to much for you right now. I feel bad putting even more on your plate. If you wanted to bow down, and just be a bm, that would be okay.
Growing up, I always had thought you would be my maid of honor, and it would feel strange not to have you standing next to me when I say I do, but as long as you are up there with me, I'm okay.
I am not kicking you out, I am not angry or anything like that. I will not be mad if you just want to be a brides maid. I love you, you are my best friend, and nothing will change.
I just understand how hard it must be to take on another responsibility w/ so much already going on in your life.
Let me know what you want to do!
Your friend,
Eleanor
Betsy,
I hope all is going well. I know you have been very busy latley, school, work, and wedding planning of your own. I was thinking, maybe being my maid of honor could possible be to much for you right now. I feel bad putting even more on your plate. If you wanted to bow down, and just be a bm, that would be okay.
Growing up, I always had thought you would be my maid of honor, and it would feel strange not to have you standing next to me when I say I do, but as long as you are up there with me, I'm okay.
I am not kicking you out, I am not angry or anything like that. I will not be mad if you just want to be a brides maid. I love you, you are my best friend, and nothing will change.
I just understand how hard it must be to take on another responsibility w/ so much already going on in your life.
Let me know what you want to do!
Your friend,
Eleanor
