I have been so stressed lately--the wedding is coming up so soon, and we are closing on our condo this week. Anyway, FH made the mistake of calling at a bad time, and we had a huge fight, basically because I am so stressed and not used to having an empty bank account after we give everything for the mortgage. It's just so hard--I feel like getting through all this is such a trial! Anyone else feel like that (say I am not alone please!!)?
LIPrincess00
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I know what you mean. We are supposed to close on a house by the end of the month (3mos late) and between that and the wedding we seem to argue over the stupidest things. I cant wait until we close, then maybe one part of the stress will be over.
mskimmy98
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im right with you.. We are less than two months away from our wedding and we just closed on a co-op two weeks ago.. talk about stress.. I know what you are going through because my bank account is also GONE!!!!
Now we still have to pay for wedding stuff and honeymoon and I just don't know how we are going to do it.. but some how I am sure it will all get down..
My FH always says why stress about things you can't change.. we bought this place and that is it... so we have to make it work..
But I like to get a little nutty, it makes me feel better...lol
robcoll1002
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I totally know how everyone feels. FH and I closed on our house last month and it was the most stressful time ever. But, now that we have the house and its only 2 months till the wedding the stress has subsided and happiness has taken over. Fh says things like ' i can't believe we have a house and that I get to spend the rest of my life with you. How lucky am I'. and that puts me at ease.
kissy27
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You are normal as of all of us...FH & I have been fighting lately too...We have the $$ to pay for the wedding but planning it is still stressful! It doesn't help that we are house hunting & that is just getting so nerve racking...I don't know how we are going to afford both things but FH tells me we can Only advice I can give you is, talk through it & realize both of you are under so much stress...I am learning to walk away before we start to fight...Anytime something starts into a fight, i just say ' I am not going to do this, we are both stressed with work & wedding planning' Hang in there