Husband divorcing me

After only two months of marriage, my husband filed papers to divorce me. It's very devastating... what hurt even more is that even though we signed the papers only on Monday, he's already on dating websites!

I had my dream wedding but unfortunately had no idea who I was marrying. Make sure your husband is in love with you before you settle down.

Husband divorcing me

Oh my god, I dont even know what to say. This is truely terrible. I hope that youre okay and stay strong!

Husband divorcing me

Oh my goodness! Did something happen? Hope you're ok! Stay strong!

Husband divorcing me

I am so sorry, you will be in my thoughts. What happened?

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We went away on our honeymoon and it was like going with a stranger. He didn't want to touch, kiss, or be intimate with me. He made me cry. It's been like that for months though, I guess I got caught up in the magic of planning a wedding. Then when we got back home, we got into a huge argument and he told me we were too different to last, and he wanted a divorce. Now, only 4 days since the annument papers have been signed, he already has his profile on match.com! Nice to know our relationship and marriage meant that much to him.

Husband divorcing me

How long were the 2 of you together before getting married

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i'm so sorry... how does that even happen stay strong.

Husband divorcing me

I'm sorry! Stay strong Hun..

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We were together for two years.

Husband divorcing me

Omg that is horrible! I am so sorry!

Husband divorcing me

How devastating. But you know what? You can hold your head high. It is clearly and solely a reflection on him.

I think I remember you we're married in a Catholic Church .... Did Pre-Cana conversations point to anything?

I find it interesting that, while most commitment phobes would lay low after jumping out of a brand new marriage like that, he just jumped back in the game. What's with that? Is it the love of the 'chase'.....he couldn't accept the chase was over?

Save your heart for someone who will treat it with care and values you for the unique person you are. Everyone deserves to feel treasured, including you.

Do you have a good bunch of friends to take care of you?

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So sorry to hear this but honestly just from what you've written on here in your post, he sounds like a POS (on dating websites already...seriously?) and you're better off without him. Stay strong, surround yourself with friends and keep busy.

Husband divorcing me

I am so sorry to hear this. How is your family and his family taking the news? Were they surprised as well? I hope you stay strong.

Husband divorcing me

I'm so sorry to hear about that He sounds like a real loser but that doesn't make it hurt any less. Stay strong and be open-minded. You'll find a real man who would never hurt you like this!

Husband divorcing me

Kathleen I am so sorry...

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Posted by McC2McM

How devastating. But you know what? You can hold your head high. It is clearly and solely a reflection on him.

I think I remember you we're married in a Catholic Church .... Did Pre-Cana conversations point to anything?

I find it interesting that, while most commitment phobes would lay low after jumping out of a brand new marriage like that, he just jumped back in the game. What's with that? Is it the love of the 'chase'.....he couldn't accept the chase was over?

Save your heart for someone who will treat it with care and values you for the unique person you are. Everyone deserves to feel treasured, including you.

Do you have a good bunch of friends to take care of you?

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this is exactly what I would have said.. if you ever need to talk you can lean on this stranger here! sometimes it's good to be able to talk to someone who can't judge from any background details. I hope that your friends and family are acting a good strong support system for you!! xoxo stay strong!

Husband divorcing me

Thanks guys. Trying to stay positive but it's hard being at home all depressed knowing that the ink on our annulment paperwork isn't even dry and he's looking to date other people. I always thought that marrying a teacher I'd be with someone respectable- obviously that was not the case. He just gave up on everything and left me in the dust.

Husband divorcing me

I am so incredibly sorry to hear this! It is truly unfortunate but at least it was early enough on where there wasn't even more at stake ie, house, children.

You will get through this and the right person will come along and you will then know why it didn't work with him!!

Keep your head up!

Husband divorcing me

I'm so sorry! My heart goes out to you! Honestly, life works in mysterious ways and know that things happen for a reason because there is something far more greater for you!!

Husband divorcing me

Thanks all. I am selling a bunch of wedding things to make up for all of the money I had to spend on legal fees (a bride hanger, shoes, my dress, necklace and veil). Pics in my albums.