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I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....
nrvbrd Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:55 AM+
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I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....

Hi.

I feel like I am always posting about some tacky element of my social life. However I felt like I had to tell you guys this.

A coworker of FH- a lovely woman. We went to her wedding last year and it was so elegant and beautiful!!!

Well we get an invitation from her- she is having a GTG at her home- she is cooking some scrumptious food, etc etc. I was so excited because I know she throws great events. Well I look at the bottom and it says donation of $30. I was appalled . Even worse it said Cash Bar available.

FH wants to go. I am outraged. How do you charge ppl to come into your home?

I spoke to her yesterday, but did not have the nerve to question her about it.

Ladies I am not kidding, this is completely true.

Who does this??????
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Sunny Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:56 AM+
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Re: I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....

I have never heard of such a thing!
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HeatherandNick Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:57 AM+
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Samanthas Mom Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:57 AM+
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what is the donation for?? I hope not her! and cancer care or something?? I wouldnt go personally is someone asked for 30 and invited me to their home
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Chloegirl Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:58 AM+
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Re: I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....

WOW, there is a first for everything...

I have never heard of that. IMO, if you are hosting a party then you pay...you dont ask for money.
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eroxgirl Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:58 AM+
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That is the most outrageous thing I have ever heard in my life! There is NO WAY I would go, personally...you don't charge ADMISSION to your home!
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nrvbrd Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:58 AM+
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I asked FH what the donation is for and he as usual is clueless.

I just cannot believe the sheer and utter nerve.

Again I ask, who does this?
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HeatherandNick Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:58 AM+
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wait a minute - she is having a cash barin her home

W T F
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Nanjoe Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:59 AM+
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I was going to ask the same thing Tammy...Is it for something or to pay for the food and beverage she would be providing?? I think that is tacky if it's not for a good cause. I don't think I would go. JMO
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Samanthas Mom Posted: Jun 12, 2003 10:59 AM+
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sounds like she is out of her mind? I never ever heard of this in my life or of a cash bar
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LizD Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:01 AM+
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I have never heard of such a thing. I wouldn't go if I were you. I think it's rude to charge people to come to a party in your home.
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Sage10.03 Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:01 AM+
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If YOU have a party then YOU should pay for the food. It's not like she was ASKED to have a party.....
I would be outraged too and would definitely NOT GO!
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jennbaby Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:03 AM+
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Re: I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....

Uh.....

Yes K you ARE classy, very! I know cause I met you twice & you present yourself so well & speak so nicely!
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Rob-luvs-me Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:05 AM+
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Ok I can see this if she is doing this as a fundraiser for some charity and will donate all the money from your donation and bar sales - BUT IF THAT IS NOT THE CASE - than can we say - tacky, tacky, tacky
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MarcellaBella Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:06 AM+
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WHAAAAAAAAAAAAT!! WT F are you donating to?

no way..I would NOT go..

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bethsiar Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:06 AM+
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definitly would not go.
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Shamee Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:12 AM+
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Re: I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....

Would it happen to be from my STBX Sister in law!!
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mishandgerard Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:14 AM+
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i would protest against going!!
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Lisa Rose Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:17 AM+
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Re: I am a classy person really but I seem to interact with people who are not....

LMAO...I never thought of that!! Hmmmmmmmmmmm....let me have a party at my house and charge people for food and alcohol!! WOW...thats a really cheap way to throw a party!!

Now that takes some nerve!!!!!
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cluelessbride Posted: Jun 12, 2003 11:19 AM+
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This lady sounds NUTS. I'd be surprised if anyone went. Def. do not go. OR - maybe go just to see what a freak show it is!
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