I am depressed...- need your opinions..UPDATE!! No longer depressed!! ...

Original post by vita930

Nov 10, 2005 08:31 AM

I am having second thoughts about my wedding gown.....As you all know I ordered it and it will be coming in the end of Feb.

It is my dream gown...it is a gown I always saw myself in...but now I am having second thoughts about....

The dress is a beautiful ballgown Reem with gorgeous detail work. It is very full in the back with bustles and stuff.....I am 30 (I know I am old) and I feel I will look like a snowman with my big dress and veil (hint; My Big Fat Greek Wedding look). I feel like the dress is not appropriate for my age (should be worn by somebody younger-like in their twenties and not me).....I am very confused.... I am thinking of canceling my order and just wearing a simple dress (I have a second one I was going to change for my afterhours party..it is a simple Monique lace dress..).....

need your opinions ladies.. (sorry for the long post)..

gNi1125 Posted: Nov 10, 2005 07:37 PM

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You have got to be kidding!!! I can't imagine that dress looking better on ANYONE else!! It was made for you. It's breathtaking!!!

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 10, 2005 07:49 PM

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Posted by JessicaM.

anyway Anita, did we really stick it out all these years NOT to go crazy when we (FINALLY) got these guys to suck it up and marry us already!

we can start and Old and Poofy thread! LOL

here's mine (well sort of LOL) if it makes you feel better.

AND this is the bustle I want! who cares!

I am old but not poofy, can I still hang with you guys?

serendipity0680 Posted: Nov 10, 2005 08:44 PM

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If it's your dream dress then absolutely keep it.

AmyMarie Posted: Nov 10, 2005 08:45 PM

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Don't you dare not wear that gown!!! It is gorgeous and anyone can wear it. You will look soooooo awesome...

Amy

wendy1220 Posted: Nov 10, 2005 08:55 PM

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Umm 30 isn't old and you look gorgeous in that dress. It's amazing and I'm glad you're feeling better. Next time you're feeling yucky just ask me how old I am, you'll snap right outta it -)

Sunrise813 Posted: Nov 10, 2005 09:03 PM

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Posted by vita930

I am having second thoughts about my wedding gown.....As you all know I ordered it and it will be coming in the end of Feb.

It is my dream gown...it is a gown I always saw myself in...but now I am having second thoughts about....

The dress is a beautiful ballgown Reem with gorgeous detail work. It is very full in the back with bustles and stuff.....I am 30 (I know I am old) and I feel I will look like a snowman with my big dress and veil (hint; My Big Fat Greek Wedding look). I feel like the dress is not appropriate for my age (should be worn by somebody younger-like in their twenties and not me).....I am very confused.... I am thinking of canceling my order and just wearing a simple dress (I have a second one I was going to change for my afterhours party..it is a simple Monique lace dress..).....

need your opinions ladies.. (sorry for the long post)..

What 30 old!!!

Hey I'm 32 and I'm wearing a beautiful poofy dress of my dreams.

Wear what you want regardless of age, the only other person's opinion that matters as far as your dress goes is your FH, and if that boy will luv ya in that gorgous dress.

Mine is poofy, I can't wait to be able to post mine.

Awhite80 Posted: Nov 10, 2005 09:04 PM

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Snap out of it! A woman in her 30s is at the prime of her life!!!

Work it girl!

Keep the dress and be happy. You will look absolutely goregous!

chloeme2 Posted: Nov 12, 2005 02:34 AM

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Posted by ChristineAE

Posted by vita930

Posted by conigs25

Do you have a pic of it???

This is the back that got me thinking...

You are so out of your effing mind right now! That dress was MADE for you!

Snap out of it and CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!

I agree. You look beautiful. The dress is beautiful. I am 33!!!(or as I like to call it 20- 13) and that is not gonna stop me from having anything that I want. I still feel like a kid when it comes to a lot of things. Stop worrying and do exactly what you would do if you were 20!!!!