I am furious, found out that a family member's FI has been helping an Ex of mine keep tabs on me!

Kathy116 Posted: Dec 23, 2003 05:34 PM

I am furious, found out that a family member's FI has been helping an Ex of mine keep tabs on me!

I am so disgusted! A close family member told me today that his 'ex' (that's another story), has been visiting my ex-boyfriend at his place of business every time she comes into town.

(I broke up with my ex around 5 years ago...and it was a really bad breakup).

So, I found out today that she's been keeping him posted on every detail of my life...WHERE I LIVE, WHEN I'M GETTING MARRIED, WHO MY FIANCE IS, HIS PLACE OF BUSINESS, etc....the list goes on and on and on.

My ex would never do anything, but I'm just disgusted that this girl who is nice to my face, would be so low!

Aughhh!

palebride Posted: Dec 23, 2003 05:36 PM

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how obnoxious!!

yabbobay Posted: Dec 23, 2003 05:36 PM

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yuck...I don't like that at all...its one thing to say oh yes shes really happy, etc...but specific details are not necessary....we all have exes that shouldn't know things!!!

why is she hanging around him???

prncssrachel Posted: Dec 23, 2003 05:39 PM

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I had an ex 'keeping tabs on me'. I guess some of us are just really that desirable It's frustrating, but people are going to do what they're going to do. Maybe this person thought the info was harmless. Who knows. People love good gossip. I wouldn't worry about it now with your wedding SO close!

Kathy116 Posted: Dec 23, 2003 05:39 PM

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She's an extremely jealous trouble maker...she was supposed to come to my wedding, but now she backed out just a few days ago (she HATES ANYONE WHO HAS SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T).

It's not even her saying, 'On yeah, Kathy's fine'...she's been talking garbage about me! I'm so angry!

This person is pure evil!

Kathy116 Posted: Dec 23, 2003 05:41 PM

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Trust me, she knows right from wrong, and she even decided to make up stuff that's not even true.

palebride Posted: Dec 23, 2003 06:01 PM

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be happpy that she's out of your life and not coming to your wedding!!

people amaze me!

you must be pretty special to deserve such jealousy though!

Marcela1654 Posted: Dec 23, 2003 06:04 PM

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That's disgusting

jennbaby Posted: Dec 23, 2003 06:35 PM

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Stalkers

DrmnBlnd Posted: Dec 23, 2003 06:48 PM

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What's the matter with her???!!!

allure Posted: Dec 23, 2003 06:52 PM

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What a pyscho
Her loss Kathy dont let this ruin your Wedding Week & Christmas

Kathy116 Posted: Dec 23, 2003 06:57 PM

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THanks allure, I won't give her the power to ruin anything...but I'm angry at the moment.

Once FI gets home, I'll feel a lot better, I'll see the man I'm about to marry and nothing this stupid girl does will matter.

butterfly20 Posted: Dec 23, 2003 07:34 PM

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... i guess its good he broke up with her

kmcwed Posted: Dec 23, 2003 08:49 PM

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What's wrong with people!!

July2004Bride Posted: Dec 23, 2003 08:51 PM

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How rude! She needs to get a life!

Imagin916 Posted: Dec 24, 2003 03:30 PM

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maria96 Posted: Dec 24, 2003 11:26 PM

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That sounded like something someone would do in High school. Don't let it get to you.

This is the last thing you need to deal with right before your wedding.

Your going to have the most amazing wedding and it's her loss that's she's missing out...