Ay Chicas.... I am totally destroyed now... Sorry if u dont understand my english right now but I am completely not here today... my body is here but my mind is .... i dunno where my mind is but let me tell u why TODAY is a very FuK3D up DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well Most of u read my other Post that i did at noon today regarding the XMOH who asked to be again in my BP.... I said obviously NO to her bc she was taking it like this is a game!!!
Well, I wish that was the only thing that happened today......
1 Hour after that incident with 'her' happened... I got a Text from my NOW EX MAID OF HONOR telling me that 'IM SORRY VERONICA YOU SHOULD LOOK FOR ANOTHER MAID OF HONOR BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH IT IS SUCH A HONOR YOU GAVE ME TO BE UR MOH, I CANT TAKE IT NOW BC I WILL FUK3D UP AND I KNOW I CANT DO IT PLUS I HAVE TOO MANY THINGS TO DO WIHT MY PERSONAL LIFE. I DONT DESERVE TO TALK TO YOU ANYMORE AND THIS IS THE END OF OUR RELATIONSHIP. IM SORRY AND BYE!'
ayyy CHICAS!!! I feel so ****** up NOW..... TWO of my EX BEST FRIENDS just 'gave' up their tittle of MOH..... I dont know if anyone knows how I feel but I have been Crying Most time of the day....
This is too much to handle for me now... My 2 xbff (they were my bff for like 8-10yrs) DONT want to be my MOH... I am completely Heartbroken!!!!!!!!!!!!!
VCanizalez
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wow...im so sorry!!!
as hard as this is and as horrible as this is... at least she did it NOW and not during the wedding process or after
that is really really strange!
is she jealous maybe?
it just doesn't make sense, out of nowhere like that?
we're here for you....cry a little...but get that pretty little head back up!!!!
Gracias Chica but I cant.... I am completely cryin now.... this is so hard....
OUT OF NOWHERE....
{Well I kno she has many problems wiht her boyfriend.... so i dunno if that would be a 'jealousy' thing...}
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omg chicky im so sorry :(
she didnt even give you an explanation as to why she cant be your MOH let alone why you cant be FRIENDS? thats insane.
try talking with her. Keep us updated. Hope it all works out <3
She send me around 10 text msges repeting she DOES NOT wants to be my MOH.... I know text msge are not the best way to communicate... But i called and no asnwer....
im so sorry :( as horrible as it is, look on the bright side. Thank goodness this happened now and youre seeing her true colors now. Can you imagine her pulling this S H I T a month before the wedding?
You have enough time now where you can pick someone who will truly be a great MOH for you.
Im so sorry youre going through this. Stay strong
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OMG...I am so sorry you are going through this, you have to stay strong. You will find a true friend who will be honored to be your MOH and will not let you down or cause you to cry.
And where will I find someone who wants to become my friend and THEN in my BP?
Do you have any sister or cousins you are close to?
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OMG...I am so sorry you are going through this, you have to stay strong. You will find a true friend who will be honored to be your MOH and will not let you down or cause you to cry.
And where will I find someone who wants to become my friend and THEN in my BP?
Do you have any sister or cousins you are close to?
No Sisters... No cousins... No Aunts.... No friends... Well not anymore...
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Wow Im so sorry about that I cannot believe that.. and was it really necessary for her to end your relationship what was that about? Were you guys in a fight or something?
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Wow Im so sorry about that I cannot believe that.. and was it really necessary for her to end your relationship what was that about? Were you guys in a fight or something?
NOOOO We were FINE!!! We talked on Sunday and everyting was GREAT!!!!!!!! This just came Out of the Blue!!!!!
I dont know why she 'needed' to end up the relationship we had....
angelscri
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It's very strange. Do you think she is upset because you asked someone else to be MOH first?
VCanizalez
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It's very strange. Do you think she is upset because you asked someone else to be MOH first?
NOP! I asked her FIRST! SHE WAS FIRST ALL THEY WAY!!!!!!
See, First was her.... Then my Coworker... then the other xbf who said No and then YES!
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that's really weird. I'm sorry girl keep your head and up and you know we're all here for you
VCanizalez
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that's really weird. I'm sorry girl keep your head and up and you know we're all here for you
Yes thanks! But i just cant handle it! I know this girls for more than 8yrs... and we been close.... I am always there for them... now thy say NO?!!!!!!!!!!!
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Awwwww- I'm sooooooo sorry you are going through this. You don't deserve this at all. Trust me, it may be difficult right now, but I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. It's their loss!!! You deserve better than them.
Do you think that you exmoh spoke with the moh who just dropped out? Everything seems a bit suspicious as far as timing.
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Awwwww- I'm sooooooo sorry you are going through this. You don't deserve this at all. Trust me, it may be difficult right now, but I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. It's their loss!!! You deserve better than them.
Do you think that you exmoh spoke with the moh who just dropped out? Everything seems a bit suspicious as far as timing.
Nop... they dont even know each other! But that is what I though... timing seems suspcicious.... but thye live in completely different town.. different worlds... totally different persons...
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omg, why did she say end of relationship? wtff!! Forget them, people come in and out of our lives for a reason, soon enough you will be thankful!!
ITA!!!
Not sure if you are a fan of Tyler Perry - but here is a pick me up message from him
No prob Love!! I watch it everytime I need that boost ... clearly ex MOH couldnt measure up to the role and as hurtful as it is, better now than wks before the wedding
keep your head up boo!! i know it is very hurtful but it will only make you stronger...
here is the full clip of the message::::: LET FOLKS GO
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No prob Love!! I watch it everytime I need that boost ... clearly ex MOH could measure up to the role.. as hurtful as it is, better now than wks before the wedding
keep your head up boo!! i know it is very hurtful but it will only make you stronger...
I'm sorry you're going through such upsetment. You have your own personal experience, but I have also experienced having people I thought were my good friends turn out not to be. One girl in particular, I was attatched to because we grew up together, I assumed we were special to each other. I learned over and over again during high school and then college years that she wasn't a real friend, and it was kind of traumatizing. I remember having bad dreams about it.
5 or 6 years have gone by since we really stopped contact, and I actually think I'm better at knowing who my real friends are. Many people come and go, real friends are rare. I also think I'm better at choosing who I want to pursue developing a real friendship with.
Good luck with meeting new friends, they're out there. It'll happen.
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Aww Veronica I am so sorry! There is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better. It hurts and I understnad why you can't stop crying. Did the one girl you an explanation as to why she can't continue being friends with you? That sound a little strange to me. It's one thing if you can't be MOH for whatever reason, but to just end the friendship like that out of nowhere sounds a little absurd.
I know you don't want to hear this, but you're probably better off in the long run anyway. You don't need like that during one of the happiest times of your life. Your day will be beautiful, if you have one girl with you or none. Don't stress about FH having 2 groomsman and it being uneven. It's YOUR day and all that matter are you and FH.
Feel better
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I am so sorry that happened to you. It's one thing that she can't be your MOH, but why did she end the friendship?
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Wow so sorry to hear.. Hang in there though.. maybe through the planning process both girls will come around and at least try to mend the friendships... In the meantime maybe you'll identify someone special you overlooked to fill that second spot.. You never know.. I know so many girls who picked their bridal party early and then had regrets about not being able to include that one girl who came around after they picked.. Stay strong
