I am keeping my name but I don't want it to be an issue... but I won't just go along with it for the day... I know why be difficult? But I guess that's me. I was think of this...
Now for the first time as husband and wife James and Tara
What do you think? I know I should just go along with it for the day b/c if his family new I was keeping my name they would be very MAD but this way I feel that they don't really know... As always thanks
Junebride
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I just want to say thanks for the helpful advise...
As far as telling his parents as far as they are concerned I will have to be Mrs....XXXX - If I told them they wouldn't speak to me (very very old fashioned) and obviously I'm not. I agree about the whole children in school - what I would like is for them to use both our names (it's imp. to me.) I really don't understand why if your joining your two families together why you only take one name (and why the man??)
