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I am leaving LIW

Original post by murphyt33

I just want to thank everyone who has helped me threw this planning process but I am leaving LIW because me and my FH are breaking up. We been fighting a lot and both been unhappy for a while now. Maybe in time we can work it out but for now its over. I will probably log back on soon as I am feeling better to ask for help what I should do about canceling things. Its just to hard to do that right now. I have been with him for 8 years and he is my life and my whole life is going to change right now. Just please keep my in your prayers. Thanks again ladies and good luck on all of you upcomming weddings.

FutureMrsGK Posted:

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I am also sorry!!! good luck to you
Eva-and-John 07 Posted:

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I'm so sorry!

My mom always tells me 'this too shall pass'.

Whether you come to a reconciliation or both move your separate ways, this hard time will pass. When it does either your relationship, or each of you individually, will be stronger for it.

All the best***

werock0709 Posted:

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I wish you lots of luck, and hope he will change his mind about the counseling. Talking to someone helps ALOT!! My girlfriend saved her relationship with pre-marital counseling. Keep your chin up. We're all here if you need us.

heatherandrichie Posted:

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HelenZ Posted:

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I am so sorry!!! I've been with FH for over 6 years.....so I know it must be so hard for you right now!!

I hope everything works out!
aprlflwr Posted:

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I am so sorry, this must be so difficult for you. I wish you the best.

jaiese Posted:

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hang in there! You're going to be okay.

shopaholic07 Posted:

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I'm sorry for what you're going through. Hope it all works out and best of luck to you.
vmystique33 Posted:

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I am soooo sorry and I wish you the best. FH and I went through this 2 yrs ago before we were engaged and we realized after that we couldnt do that I hope it is the same for you!!
bettybcafe Posted:

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This is really heart breaking. I cant even begin to imagine the pain you are going through....8yrs...that is such a long time. I am really sorry...best of luck to you..if you ever need to talk you can always FM me
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faithandkevin Posted:

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Sorry to hear this! I hope everything works out for the best!
murphyt33 Posted:

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Thanks everyone for sending all the FM and just responding to this post. I wrote him a very long letter and i am going to give it to him tonight. I hope he will really think about this long and hard cause 8 years is so long just to throw it all away. Hopefully everything will work out even if it takes a while that is fine. I will keep you ladies updated. thanks again.

Mdolph6 Posted:

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I am so sorry ....keep your head up
SuzArtie69 Posted:

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Oh I'm so sorry, Take care and I hope things work out.
naps714 Posted:

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My thoughts are with you!
PegaLega Posted:

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Im so sorry to hear this-I wish you the best in the future and tons of
daniebc16 Posted:

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So sorry, good luck with everything
missross Posted:

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I am so sorry that you are going thru this right now! I too am a firm believer in the prase 'everything happens for a reason' and know from experience that 'this too shall pass'. Counseling is a really great idea for both of you if he agrees to it, however, don't force him. You don't want to marry someone whose heart isn't in it 100%. It just won't work out that way for either one of your happiness! I wish you all the best and will keep you in my prayers!

SusanAdam Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine what you must be going through right now. I hope things work out for the best, no matter what that might be. Good luck with everything. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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