I am leaving LIW

Original post by murphyt33

Jan 16, 2007 10:42 AM

I just want to thank everyone who has helped me threw this planning process but I am leaving LIW because me and my FH are breaking up. We been fighting a lot and both been unhappy for a while now. Maybe in time we can work it out but for now its over. I will probably log back on soon as I am feeling better to ask for help what I should do about canceling things. Its just to hard to do that right now. I have been with him for 8 years and he is my life and my whole life is going to change right now. Just please keep my in your prayers. Thanks again ladies and good luck on all of you upcomming weddings.

brittny817 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:10 AM

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I am so sorry. I know it sounds cliche but things do happen for a reason. I wish you all the best

Marchbride07 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:11 AM

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Good luck you are in my prayers...

murphyt33 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:11 AM

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

Posted by murphyt33

Posted by LIBride07

I'm so sorry......eight years is a long time....have you considered speaking with a therapist?? wishing you all the best with whatever decision you come to

I wanted us to go to councling but he dosn't want to. He feels it won't help cause we broke up over the same stuff two years ago and he feel its just not going to change. I hope in time I can talk him into it but we will see.
I dont know what religion you are, but I am catholic and FH is lutheran, we're getting married in MY church so we went through pre-cana. It was basically like group counciling. BEST THING we EVER did together... Im sure a real therapist would work wonders! It really helped us out with ALOT of our issues with one another, im SURE it would do the same for you.. we also have been together 8 years.

I am going to try to say that again about councling and tell him we can still cancel the wedding until we work things out. But I feel like he has gave up. What upsets me more is its not over someone cheating or anything that is that extreme. Its over that we argue. I feel this is something we can get threw cause we have been threw so much in the past 8 years.