I am leaving LIW

murphyt33 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:42 AM

I am leaving LIW

I just want to thank everyone who has helped me threw this planning process but I am leaving LIW because me and my FH are breaking up. We been fighting a lot and both been unhappy for a while now. Maybe in time we can work it out but for now its over. I will probably log back on soon as I am feeling better to ask for help what I should do about canceling things. Its just to hard to do that right now. I have been with him for 8 years and he is my life and my whole life is going to change right now. Just please keep my in your prayers. Thanks again ladies and good luck on all of you upcomming weddings.

laural2979 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:43 AM

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I'm so sorry. Good luck.

afrodyt2000 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:44 AM

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I'm so sorry! I have been with FH for almost 9 years and I can only imagine what it's like to break up after being together for so long.

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:44 AM

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Im sorry to hear this! Good Luck with everything and try to remember that everything happens for a reason. If u were not happy and went along with the wedding anyway things would just get worse.
ill keep u in my prayers sweety!

MrsQ-in2007 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:45 AM

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Oh wow, many to you!!!! It must be so hard, but remember that you have to do what is best for you!

kitty1224 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:51 AM

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I am sorry that things haven't been working our, but things will work out for you.

Trishthedish Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:51 AM

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I am sorry to hear this. If it is meant to be in time it will work out.

Good luck..

RudysMom Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:52 AM

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I am so sorry - you probaby don't want to hear this right now, but things will work out for the best, jsut be patient.

TnOiOnL Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:52 AM

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im so sorry, please fm me anytime you need. im sure you'll work it out.

neener1211 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:54 AM

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LIBride07 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:57 AM

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I'm so sorry......eight years is a long time....have you considered speaking with a therapist?? wishing you all the best with whatever decision you come to

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:57 AM

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i am so sorry!!! I hope everything will work out for the better!!

good luck!!

ETAB Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:59 AM

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I am so sorry.. good luck with everything. we are always here if you need to talk

murphyt33 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 10:59 AM

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Posted by LIBride07

I'm so sorry......eight years is a long time....have you considered speaking with a therapist?? wishing you all the best with whatever decision you come to

I wanted us to go to councling but he dosn't want to. He feels it won't help cause we broke up over the same stuff two years ago and he feel its just not going to change. I hope in time I can talk him into it but we will see.

LICARRIE Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:04 AM

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I am so sorry. I hope everything works out for you.

NY031978 Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:04 AM

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nest of luck.........hope you guys can work it out!!! Feel free and come back anytime!!!

DNicholes Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:04 AM

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I'm so sorry!

TnOiOnL Posted: Jan 16, 2007 11:05 AM

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Posted by murphyt33

Posted by LIBride07

I'm so sorry......eight years is a long time....have you considered speaking with a therapist?? wishing you all the best with whatever decision you come to

I wanted us to go to councling but he dosn't want to. He feels it won't help cause we broke up over the same stuff two years ago and he feel its just not going to change. I hope in time I can talk him into it but we will see.

I dont know what religion you are, but I am catholic and FH is lutheran, we're getting married in MY church so we went through pre-cana. It was basically like group counciling. BEST THING we EVER did together... Im sure a real therapist would work wonders! It really helped us out with ALOT of our issues with one another, im SURE it would do the same for you.. we also have been together 8 years.