I am pi$$ed the heck off..(Vent)

So I call my reception hall and spoke to a banquest manager about a tasting. Now this is not the guy who is handling my wedding, just some random banquet manager. So I proceed to ask him about tastings, and he tells me they don't do that. Now I am not really that worried about the food because i know they have a great reputation and what not but I think it is absolute malarky(sp?) to tell someone they have to pay you excess of $10k and pick a menu by guess, you have got to be kidding. I really did not think of it before but i will be calling MY banquet tomorrow to let him know how pissed I am. I mean get real, the guy I spoke to on the phone said they don't do it because they don't have a resturant there(he said it very nicely, there was no attitidue involved) Isn't that the lamest thing you have ever heard. The same way they can get me in a room alone to write them a downpayment check is the same way they could get me a plate in privacy, no restaurant needed. I have to choose 8 out of 18 dishes for my international buffet, and how does he think I am going to do that by guess? What an a$$hole. I just really feel like venting. It is not the food I am worried about it is the stupid policy. FH thinks I am overreacting. What do you think?