So I don't mean to preach and like I said to each their own but...
These boards are PUBLIC people! I mean what anyone writes online can follow them for a long time. I know myspace and facebook can be much more damaging than LIW but still. People lurk these boards.
Just yesterday there was a thread about vendors lurking, and how we are uncomfortable with it and feel it is wrong. I agree with that.
But are you comfotable kowing that a vendor you might visit and possibly hire will know that you (I am sure they can identify us by our pics) like it from behind and enjoy swallowing? They read these, it isn't only brides (and grooms) unfortunatly, it is strangers and moms....
Like I said I am not a prude many of the Sextions of the Day I have read on the '09 board have been nothing but funny (different names for a p*nis, or who would you rather do... innocent questions)... I just think some things are better left offline.
I am no prude and what everyone does is their own business, just remember before you post and/or reply we (meaning the 2010 brides/grooms) are not the only ones reading these
ok I'm getting off my soapbox now....
yelley77
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Posted by laurenandmike618
Okay I know that this thread has gone wayyyyy off topic, and I don't mean to poor fuel on the fire, but I wasn't on here all day yesterday and I need to say that I am shocked at what happened on this thread. My cousin Shauna is the most fun and the least controversial person EVER. She is a fun party girl, she is by NO MEANS a prude, and she never lectures anyone. She was simply trying to remind everyone that ANYONE can see these forums. For example, when I google-image the Garden City Hotel, my profile picture comes up on the second page of the search, and if you click on it, you are now viewing my profile in LIW. You have NO IDEA what I discuss with my friends, and you have no idea what Shauna discusses with her cousins and friends... but we both just wouldn't post it on a forum that allows the world to see what we do with our FHs. Shauna was just having everyone's back - reminding you all that anyone in the world can see these. If you don't care about that, that is totally and completely FINE. No one is judging. But some people often think of this as a somewhat private forum, but in all honesty, anyone in the world can see what we write and they don't need a password either. Shauna is a sweet girl and she doesn't want to see anyone regretting what they write. You should have APPRECIATED that, not started a war with her.
To be honest with you, it has been my experience that those who have to say they are kinky or raunchy are usually the ones who are not as kinky and raunchy as those who keep it to themselves. So to say Shauna is a prude or that she 'shouldn't read posts that are offensive to her' is retarded. She wasn't offended. She was warning people that anyone in the world can read these, so just make sure you are comfortable first before you post it. and if you have no problem with your father knowing everything that goes on with your FH, that is totally fine, too!!! We don't care at all!!!! In fact, it is entertaining to read the answers. But I just know that some people may post on here and forget how public it really is.
And no, Shauna did not message me and ask me to defend her. In fact, she still has no idea I just read this. I happened to stumble upon it and felt the need to express my opinion.
And I am seriously annoyed that someone started another 'sextion' on this thread, and then said 'oh wait - I can't write that because then I would be deemed immature!!!' Seriously??? What is this, middle school?? Don't mock my cousin just because she was being sweet and reminding everyone that anyone can read these posts. Jesus.
This, right from your cousins mouth, is judgemental and NOT a friendly reminder
Posted by soontobecruz
Also In my honest opinion ADULTS keep those things private and off the internet atleast most of the adults I know.
rocketsummer17
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Posted by Songstress
Since all of us are getting along now, I will be shipping everyone participating in this thread a gift
Except the groom. Unlesssss......
That is great!!!
T E R I
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Posted by Songstress
Since all of us are getting along now, I will be shipping everyone participating in this thread a gift
Except the groom. Unlesssss......
I will be expecting my copy in 5-7 days, thank you
soontobecruz
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Posted by yelley77
Posted by laurenandmike618
Okay I know that this thread has gone wayyyyy off topic, and I don't mean to poor fuel on the fire, but I wasn't on here all day yesterday and I need to say that I am shocked at what happened on this thread. My cousin Shauna is the most fun and the least controversial person EVER. She is a fun party girl, she is by NO MEANS a prude, and she never lectures anyone. She was simply trying to remind everyone that ANYONE can see these forums. For example, when I google-image the Garden City Hotel, my profile picture comes up on the second page of the search, and if you click on it, you are now viewing my profile in LIW. You have NO IDEA what I discuss with my friends, and you have no idea what Shauna discusses with her cousins and friends... but we both just wouldn't post it on a forum that allows the world to see what we do with our FHs. Shauna was just having everyone's back - reminding you all that anyone in the world can see these. If you don't care about that, that is totally and completely FINE. No one is judging. But some people often think of this as a somewhat private forum, but in all honesty, anyone in the world can see what we write and they don't need a password either. Shauna is a sweet girl and she doesn't want to see anyone regretting what they write. You should have APPRECIATED that, not started a war with her.
To be honest with you, it has been my experience that those who have to say they are kinky or raunchy are usually the ones who are not as kinky and raunchy as those who keep it to themselves. So to say Shauna is a prude or that she 'shouldn't read posts that are offensive to her' is retarded. She wasn't offended. She was warning people that anyone in the world can read these, so just make sure you are comfortable first before you post it. and if you have no problem with your father knowing everything that goes on with your FH, that is totally fine, too!!! We don't care at all!!!! In fact, it is entertaining to read the answers. But I just know that some people may post on here and forget how public it really is.
And no, Shauna did not message me and ask me to defend her. In fact, she still has no idea I just read this. I happened to stumble upon it and felt the need to express my opinion.
And I am seriously annoyed that someone started another 'sextion' on this thread, and then said 'oh wait - I can't write that because then I would be deemed immature!!!' Seriously??? What is this, middle school?? Don't mock my cousin just because she was being sweet and reminding everyone that anyone can read these posts. Jesus.
This, right from your cousins mouth, is judgemental and NOT a friendly reminder
Posted by soontobecruz
Also In my honest opinion ADULTS keep those things private and off the internet atleast most of the adults I know.
well that wasn't in my inital post... and seriously it was overwith can we all drop it?
PS that book is hysterical!!
laurenandmike618
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Posted by rocketsummer17
Posted by Songstress
Since all of us are getting along now, I will be shipping everyone participating in this thread a gift
Except the groom. Unlesssss......
That is great!!!
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
laurenandmike618
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Going out with FH for the day.... laytaaaaaa.
Nichole2010
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this thread didnt get pulled yet?!??!?!
KatieG2010
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hahah.. omg I was away for one day and came back to this thread!!! wowsa!!!
RadiantBride
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Posted by Nichole2010
this thread didnt get pulled yet?!??!?!
Nope once we started singing Kumbaya the changes of being pulled went out the window.
Butterfly123
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Posted by T E R I
Posted by Songstress
Since all of us are getting along now, I will be shipping everyone participating in this thread a gift
Except the groom. Unlesssss......
I will be expecting my copy in 5-7 days, thank you
Well I will be shipping on Puerto Rican/Dominican people time, so you should get it within a year or 2.
(That means dont hold your breath)
SummerBride10
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This thread is keeping me entertained during Staff Dev. Day. Thanks NWs!
SummerBride10
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where's gay john?
Nichole2010
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where's gay john?
with his boyfriend, duh!
RadiantBride
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Posted by SummerBride10
where's gay john?
Hold please let me send a smoke signal:
Gayyyy groooms come out come out whereever you areeeeeeeeee......
