I am really not a prude but.....

Original post by soontobecruz

Mar 19, 2009 01:06 PM

So I don't mean to preach and like I said to each their own but...

These boards are PUBLIC people! I mean what anyone writes online can follow them for a long time. I know myspace and facebook can be much more damaging than LIW but still. People lurk these boards.

Just yesterday there was a thread about vendors lurking, and how we are uncomfortable with it and feel it is wrong. I agree with that.

But are you comfotable kowing that a vendor you might visit and possibly hire will know that you (I am sure they can identify us by our pics) like it from behind and enjoy swallowing? They read these, it isn't only brides (and grooms) unfortunatly, it is strangers and moms....

Like I said I am not a prude many of the Sextions of the Day I have read on the '09 board have been nothing but funny (different names for a p*nis, or who would you rather do... innocent questions)... I just think some things are better left offline.

I am no prude and what everyone does is their own business, just remember before you post and/or reply we (meaning the 2010 brides/grooms) are not the only ones reading these

ok I'm getting off my soapbox now....

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 19, 2009 01:57 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by CloudNine

my question here is...if it was just an opinion and it wasnt a lecture...than why was it made as a seperate thread? what was the point of making this new thread and specifically referencing the sextion of the day thread? the rules are quite simple...if you dont like it ...dont read and post on it. you directly addressed the sextion thread and then said its just your opinion. so you pretty much are judging and criticizing the people who answered it. no one is telling you that you are wrong for not answering so stop making it seem like its wrong for other people to answer it.

TO EACH HIS OWN...DO NOT JUDGE OTHER PEOPLES DECISIONS ON HOW THEY HANDLE THEIR PERSONAL LIVES

I never said it was wrong don't put words in my mouth. It was a reminder and for those who might have fogotten as Adriana said sometimes our guards are down bc we feel comfortable on here and write just about everything.
Why I started a new thread? bc I wanted to. Bc I had like I said a mailbox full of people agreeing with me on what I said on the Sextion board. I am just the one who came out and said it.

I said before I don't have a problem with the board who answers it what they like to do or not do. I just think and this is ONLY my opinion it was a little graphic. I am not saying anyone is bad for doing it people are gross for spitting or swallowing that is their choice. I am only saying I thought it was a little graphic for a public thread....

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 19, 2009 01:58 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by marrymybestfriend

Posted by soontobecruz

I am not sheltered nor am I a prude as I wrote in the title. I am very open with my close friends about everything in my life. However I don't think a public forum is the place it. Thats my opinion.... post if you like or don't its your choice

and I felt the same way when I was told we are all Adults here, as if I was the child.

understood. you putting adults in caps makes sense now, and i apologize

Thank you and so do I

CloudNine Posted: Mar 19, 2009 01:59 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

do you agree if you dont want to share your info or dont like the sextion post than maybe you just shouldnt read it and answer it??

seems like a simple solution

FutureMrs.M Posted: Mar 19, 2009 01:59 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

ok so before this gets really ugly lets leave it at this....everyone should agree to disagree we all ARE! adults and to post or not to post on this or any thread is the persons own business so leave it at that. as john lennon said make love not war !lol!!!

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 19, 2009 01:59 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by CloudNine

having an inbox full of people who agree with you i guess makes them right and us wrong? there's people posting on this thread that disagree with you. no one is right or wroing in this situation and no one should be told how to handle their info. if you want to keep your personal life to yourself than dont post it...starting a thread stating that you think personal info shouldnt be spread is your opinion and shouldnt be forced onto other people

Honetly I feel that eveything I am saying is being taken out of context. I NEVER said I am Right and anyone is WRONG... I said others agree with me, as others on here have agreed with you

marrymybestfriend Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:01 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

so would you have sex with flavor flav... or howard stern???

CloudNine Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:01 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

well my view here is if you didnt like it then you shouldnt post on it but to make a thread talking about it and drawing attention to the fact that you dont like it and people should watch what they say was asking for more

AdriandSteve Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:01 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

RICE BALL!

Just wanted to say something random that we all know and love.

MikesBride2B Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:02 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by AdriandSteve

RICE BALL!

Just wanted to say something random that we all know and love.

omg STOP my poor diet!!

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:02 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

I already said if it is something I am not comfortable with I don't answer it...

CloudNine Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:03 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

rice ball..i like the randomness cuz im done with this non-sense

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:03 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by AdriandSteve

RICE BALL!

Just wanted to say something random that we all know and love.

i had one for lunch

AdriandSteve Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:08 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by soontobecruz

Posted by AdriandSteve

RICE BALL!

Just wanted to say something random that we all know and love.

i had one for lunch

i'm jealous...

SummerBride10 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:09 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by AdriandSteve

Posted by soontobecruz

Posted by AdriandSteve

RICE BALL!

Just wanted to say something random that we all know and love.

i had one for lunch

i'm jealous...

Im hungry.

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 19, 2009 02:09 PM

Re: I am really not a prude but.....

Posted by AdriandSteve

Posted by soontobecruz

Posted by AdriandSteve

RICE BALL!

Just wanted to say something random that we all know and love.

i had one for lunch

i'm jealous...