So I don't mean to preach and like I said to each their own but...
These boards are PUBLIC people! I mean what anyone writes online can follow them for a long time. I know myspace and facebook can be much more damaging than LIW but still. People lurk these boards.
Just yesterday there was a thread about vendors lurking, and how we are uncomfortable with it and feel it is wrong. I agree with that.
But are you comfotable kowing that a vendor you might visit and possibly hire will know that you (I am sure they can identify us by our pics) like it from behind and enjoy swallowing? They read these, it isn't only brides (and grooms) unfortunatly, it is strangers and moms....
Like I said I am not a prude many of the Sextions of the Day I have read on the '09 board have been nothing but funny (different names for a p*nis, or who would you rather do... innocent questions)... I just think some things are better left offline.
I am no prude and what everyone does is their own business, just remember before you post and/or reply we (meaning the 2010 brides/grooms) are not the only ones reading these
ok I'm getting off my soapbox now....
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if you don't want to post on a certain topic then don't. i never post on the sextion of the day because i personally don't want anyone out there to know that stuff. but if someone is comfortable in responding then by all means i have no problem w/ it.
Jenna_and_John
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I feel like I kind of forget sometimes bc I feel so comfortable with everyone we discuss things with.....
But anyway whatever happy times!!!!
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Posted by CloudNine
and not for nothing...we're all adults here...we're all getting married...i'm pretty sure our parents dont think we're all virgins and not doing any type of sexual acts..its life...its what people do
I def agree with this....
But I don't know if I want my mom knowing if I spit or swallow!!! I'll never be old enough for her to know that!!!
well i would hope if my mom was lurking she wouldn't click on 'sextion of the day' if she did she deserves what she reads
RITA... you took the words right out of my mouth!!!!
and if a vendor looks they are pervs
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and not for nothing...we're all adults here...we're all getting married...i'm pretty sure our parents dont think we're all virgins and not doing any type of sexual acts..its life...its what people do
I def agree with this....
But I don't know if I want my mom knowing if I spit or swallow!!! I'll never be old enough for her to know that!!!
well i would hope if my mom was lurking she wouldn't click on 'sextion of the day' if she did she deserves what she reads
no worries here. my mom just learned how to use the computer & internet. she is only alloweed to use the sites my sister bookmarked for her. lol. but onto what Rita said, if someone is looking at something that isn't theres they deserve to read whatever it says.
CloudNine
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and not for nothing...we're all adults here...we're all getting married...i'm pretty sure our parents dont think we're all virgins and not doing any type of sexual acts..its life...its what people do
I def agree with this....
But I don't know if I want my mom knowing if I spit or swallow!!! I'll never be old enough for her to know that!!!
well i would hope if my mom was lurking she wouldn't click on 'sextion of the day' if she did she deserves what she reads
exactly!
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hi girls n boys...
as the original tramp i gotta tell u..u will come to see 500 people read the sextion and the same 25 respond every day...
we started it for fun not to offend just like u guys did..if someone wants to post that they like threesomes with a guy and a farm animal, so be it..to be honest im more worried bout a bm seeing something i wrote bout them pissing me off than my mom knowing i have sex..and i do..lots
not preaching here...u girls n guys said it all..if u wanna post post..if not keep reading all the answers..and trust me i would love to get extra raunchy but u will find the funny sextions always get more replies than the really raunchy ones..
anways..sorry to crash..just wanna say answering the 09 sextion or 10 sextions shouldnt make u feel bad or embarrassed..its all in fun...i hope noone has a problem with any of our sextion or any of ur sextions....i will leave u with the fact that i like reverse cowgirl the best
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Wow I never meant to start and all out WAR against myself. I actually always really enjoyed being on here.
what I said was not meant as a lecturer it was meant as a reminder as Jenna said. I will not answer questions I feel is to personal. You can all do what you want.
Also In my honest opinion ADULTS keep those things private and off the internet atleast most of the adults I know.
Sorry if I offended anyone or you felt I was lecturing you that was not my intention... I will however say I am not the only one who feels tihs way as I have an inbox filled with people who agreed with me.
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hi girls n boys...
as the original tramp i gotta tell u..u will come to see 500 people read the sextion and the same 25 respond every day...
we started it for fun not to offend just like u guys did..if someone wants to post that they like threesomes with a guy and a farm animal, so be it..to be honest im more worried bout a bm seeing something i wrote bout them pissing me off than my mom knowing i have sex..and i do..lots
not preaching here...u girls n guys said it all..if u wanna post post..if not keep reading all the answers..and trust me i would love to get extra raunchy but u will find the funny sextions always get more replies than the really raunchy ones..
anways..sorry to crash..just wanna say answering the 09 sextion or 10 sextions shouldnt make u feel bad or embarrassed..its all in fun...i hope noone has a problem with any of our sextion or any of ur sextions....i will leave u with the fact that i like reverse cowgirl the best
EXACLTY my point the Funny ones are much more enjoyable....
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You dont have to reply to certain posts, and to each their own, but it is true there are sooo many lurkers thats why you will never see me posting my pic, where Im getting married, my booked vendors, my FH pic or my personal info on here like where I live etc. There are so many crazy people out there and I know that LIW has many crazy lurkers
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You don't have to reply if you don't want to. I'm not going to post anything I am not comfortable posting. But I'm not going to spoil other people's fun.
We are all adults here.
ITA
RitasEngaged
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Wow I never meant to start and all out WAR against myself. I actually always really enjoyed being on here.
what I said was not meant as a lecturer it was meant as a reminder as Jenna said. I will not answer questions I feel is to personal. You can all do what you want.
Also In my honest opinion ADULTS keep those things private and off the internet atleast most of the adults I know.
Sorry if I offended anyone or you felt I was lecturing you that was not my intention... I will however say I am not the only one who feels tihs way as I have an inbox filled with people who agreed with me.
well ADULTS can make there own decisions and if we want to post our biz on ther interenet that is our ADULT decision
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Wow I never meant to start and all out WAR against myself. I actually always really enjoyed being on here.
what I said was not meant as a lecturer it was meant as a reminder as Jenna said. I will not answer questions I feel is to personal. You can all do what you want.
Also In my honest opinion ADULTS keep those things private and off the internet atleast most of the adults I know.
Sorry if I offended anyone or you felt I was lecturing you that was not my intention... I will however say I am not the only one who feels tihs way as I have an inbox filled with people who agreed with me.
i dont think it was a war against you... i know i wasnt mad at you... i was just simply stating my case.
however, 'ADULTS' that keep that private in my opinion... are very sheltered. i like to express myself ,and thank god my fiance feels the same. most of my 'ADULT' friends are very open about this kind of stuff. so i think it's a matter of perspective
but by you putting ADULTS in caps... i cant help but think that you are calling people that are open with their sexualtiy 'CHILDREN'. or isthat just my imagination??
RitasEngaged
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Wow I never meant to start and all out WAR against myself. I actually always really enjoyed being on here.
what I said was not meant as a lecturer it was meant as a reminder as Jenna said. I will not answer questions I feel is to personal. You can all do what you want.
Also In my honest opinion ADULTS keep those things private and off the internet atleast most of the adults I know.
Sorry if I offended anyone or you felt I was lecturing you that was not my intention... I will however say I am not the only one who feels tihs way as I have an inbox filled with people who agreed with me.
i dont think it was a war against you... i know i wasnt mad at you... i was just simply stating my case.
however, 'ADULTS' that keep that private in my opinion... are very sheltered. i like to express myself ,and thank god my fiance feels the same. most of my 'ADULT' friends are very open about this kind of stuff. so i think it's a matter of perspective
but by you putting ADULTS in caps... i cant help but think that you are calling people that are open with their sexualtiy 'CHILDREN'. or isthat just my imagination??
ITA - I talk about sex with my coworkers does that make us children - all these people are married with kids
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I think Jenna has a point and Shauna was just stating it.
Because most of us are so comfortable with everyone on here at times we might type something and then later on say, 'oh sh*t, should i have written that?'
I'd take it as more of a reminder then anything else...
marrymybestfriend
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I think Jenna has a point and Shauna was just stating it.
Because most of us are so comfortable with everyone on here at times we might type something and then later on say, 'oh sh*t, should i have written that?'
I'd take it as more of a reminder then anything else...
i agree that it was a reminder, and by no means was i upset / mad. i was just discussing it like everyone else.
but you cant sit there and say that it was a 'simple reminder'. the original post was a thread starting... 5 paragraph 'reminder'
the only time i got mad was when we were told that ADULTS dont do this kinda stuff. i'm probably older then all of you. i am ADULT enough to know that i am VERY VERY VERY comfortable with what goes one between me and my fiance... and i like talking about it because you can learn stuff... teach stufff... and it's just fun.
sorry.. just my opinion. not trying to be a homewrecker
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while i did say the funny ones get more responses..i most certainly did not say only adults would not respond??
being able to talk openly bout sex does not make u any more mature or immature than someone who does or does not
we have girls that dont respond..but i have just as much respect for someone who is a virgin or someone who does not respnd to a some one who told me she likes it standing up against the wall..dont change my opnion on anyone
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my question here is...if it was just an opinion and it wasnt a lecture...than why was it made as a seperate thread? what was the point of making this new thread and specifically referencing the sextion of the day thread? the rules are quite simple...if you dont like it ...dont read and post on it. you directly addressed the sextion thread and then said its just your opinion. so you pretty much are judging and criticizing the people who answered it. no one is telling you that you are wrong for not answering so stop making it seem like its wrong for other people to answer it.
TO EACH HIS OWN...DO NOT JUDGE OTHER PEOPLES DECISIONS ON HOW THEY HANDLE THEIR PERSONAL LIVES
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I am not sheltered nor am I a prude as I wrote in the title. I am very open with my close friends about everything in my life. However I don't think a public forum is the place it. Thats my opinion.... post if you like or don't its your choice
and I felt the same way when I was told we are all Adults here, as if I was the child.
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I am not sheltered nor am I a prude as I wrote in the title. I am very open with my close friends about everything in my life. However I don't think a public forum is the place it. Thats my opinion.... post if you like or don't its your choice
and I felt the same way when I was told we are all Adults here, as if I was the child.
understood. you putting adults in caps makes sense now, and i apologize
CloudNine
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having an inbox full of people who agree with you i guess makes them right and us wrong? there's people posting on this thread that disagree with you. no one is right or wroing in this situation and no one should be told how to handle their info. if you want to keep your personal life to yourself than dont post it...starting a thread stating that you think personal info shouldnt be spread is your opinion and shouldnt be forced onto other people
