I am SO ANGRY!!! Re- INVITING W/GUEST

princess99 Posted: Nov 04, 2003 10:25 PM

I am SO ANGRY!!! Re- INVITING W/GUEST

I am so mad, my Fh and I were together 1 year when he was invited to his brothers friends wedding, and we were not invited together, so he went to the wedding without me. We understood we were not married, etc. This guy got divorced, and is now going out with a girl for 'some time' now. We are all going to a wedding this weekend, and he is bring invited with her, and there is another friend of theres that is also getting married a month before us, and he is inviting this person with his girlfriend. He made a comment that he expects to be invited with her to our wedding. I am so dead set against it, becuase, 1. They are not married, 2. Not engaged or even living together3. We are paying for every cent of this wedding, no one is helping us. He told this friend that he would not go to ours without a guest!!! As it is the room is filled, and why should I have to be forced to invite her- I do not want strangers at our wedding, and if we make this exception we have to make it for everyone! I feel it is our wedding and we make the rules. Any feedback,Am I wrong?

nehaliasz Posted: Nov 04, 2003 10:30 PM

Re: I am SO ANGRY!!! Re- INVITING W/GUEST

No, you're not wrong. We are going to have to set that rule too... especially since you weren't invited to his wedding, he should understand. Thats crazy that he would refuse to come to your wedding. It seems that he's forgetting what the point of the day is... his brother is getting married!! That would make me so mad too.