I am so disgusted, can you believe this?

Original post by aidamarie

May 25, 2005 01:17 PM

Had tp remove just in case FH ever finds this site.

aidamarie Posted: May 25, 2005 04:39 PM

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Posted by cindiella

Oh and kudos to your FH for leaving. A man with convictions and honor is someone to be cherished.

Thank you, I am sooooo glad that he walked out too.

romameansamor Posted: May 25, 2005 04:39 PM

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My FH and I have a fantastic relationship and he is really honest w/ me. He tells me the things his friends do (and many of them are married) w/ regards to other women. I am sooooo shocked when I hear it! I know their wives and I can't believe that they don't know or suspect that their husbands cheat!!!

It is really upsetting. My FH doesn't criticize them or say anything to them, he just shakes his head. He said he could never do that and come home and look me in the face. I totally trust him (I might hire a stripper for his b-party - I figured I could call him before she gets there and tell him I sent him a present - then he will be thinking of me the whole time he is watching her!!!) but it does make you think!

N.Y.bride Posted: May 25, 2005 04:45 PM

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Unfortunately that is not the first time I have heard that. I heard of the BJ circles and everything. Bachelor parties seem to have gone one way or another. Either fishing trip or a night at the bar or FULL out prostitutes.

I am going to say I am worried only b/c my FHs brothers do cheat on the SOs. They are party goers, wild AND crazy! And I know my FH can NOT handle liquor (only beer) when he drinks liquor he is SLOSHED and I KNOW they are going to be pouring it down his throat! There is a small part of me that is worried. I trust him, I really do, but completely absolutely SLOSHED with unbelievable party animals... I dont know :( His brothers were talking about taking him to Vegas! I said no way.

Its just so sad!

aidamarie Posted: May 25, 2005 04:47 PM

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You know i dont get some men, How hard is it to be faithful to the one you love. And im not even kidding when i say his wife is so BEAUTIFUL, inside and out. When i first met her i told her she reminded me of a little china doll. And this dirt bag doesnt even have enough respect for her or himself to be faithful and even worse it was a few days before he said his vows to his bride. How could he even stand there and say those vows to her, I watched her says her vows to him and she was in tears it was so beautiful, she had such feeling, everyones eyes welled up. Im glad i didnt know about it at the time of the wedding, I dont think i would have been able to hold my peace, i would have had to get up and walk out.

Jen2999 Posted: May 25, 2005 05:24 PM

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omg.I find that so hard to believe , but I gues I am naive.

I wouldnt want him at my wedding either. PIG

aidamarie Posted: May 25, 2005 05:56 PM

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Posted by May05Bride

That is horrible!!!
I can not believe her own BROTHER didn't do anything or say anything to his own SISTER!!!!!!

I know hes just as much a pig as her husband. My brother passed away last year, but i can say this, if he was alive and that was my FH's BP and that happend, there wouldnt be a wedding, my brother would have killed him right there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Darcy Posted: May 25, 2005 06:31 PM

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Wow! And what about these 'friends'? I never considered someone that would help ruin a relationship friends. The whole thing is messed up.

Mrs_B Posted: May 25, 2005 06:37 PM

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OMG!!!!!!!!!

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 25, 2005 06:49 PM

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I just wanted to add that I showed this thread to my FH and he was disgusted by it!

I still cannot believe one thing. HOW ON EARTH can the bride's BROTHER stand there and watch his future brother in law screw a HOOKER and not tell his own sister?!

What kind of behavior is that??!

siblings are supposed to look out for each other. this makes me SICK to my stomach!!!!!!!

and again, KUDOS to your FH for leaving!! that is very admirable.

gNi1125 Posted: May 25, 2005 06:56 PM

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Posted by aidamarie

You know i dont get some men, How hard is it to be faithful to the one you love. And im not even kidding when i say his wife is so BEAUTIFUL, inside and out. When i first met her i told her she reminded me of a little china doll. And this dirt bag doesnt even have enough respect for her or himself to be faithful and even worse it was a few days before he said his vows to his bride. How could he even stand there and say those vows to her, I watched her says her vows to him and she was in tears it was so beautiful, she had such feeling, everyones eyes welled up. Im glad i didnt know about it at the time of the wedding, I dont think i would have been able to hold my peace, i would have had to get up and walk out.

This makes me sooo sad. I'm at a loss for words.

GsCM4EVA Posted: May 25, 2005 07:45 PM

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jesuuu
i would fkn kill him...leave him right there, sorry...
disgusting chooch men

jsb1ot Posted: May 25, 2005 09:07 PM

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How disgusting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just because your celebrating your last single life it doesn't mean you have the right to screw around. Let alone have sex with anyone.
I feel bad for the bride. If that was me, I would like to know that information before I get married.

BlondeJD Posted: May 25, 2005 09:14 PM

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I love FH and trust him completely but it's stories like these that make me (and a lot of other brides) very hesitant to say, 'yeah, it's fine. go to a strip club or whatever.' My one rule for his bachelor party is that no one can HIRE strippers (he can only go to clubs) and no private rooms. I've heard similar stories (though not one where the groom has SEX with a stripper/hooker!! ) about 'private strippers.' Ugh! How awful for that poor bride . I can't believe her family kept her in the dark too.

suezboss Posted: May 25, 2005 09:21 PM

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O-M-G

February05 Posted: May 25, 2005 09:28 PM

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the guy is completely disgusting, yeah, theres no doubt about that, but SERIOUSLY i think i have a much bigger problem with the Brides family not telling her. blood is thicker than water.

Mrs.Z Posted: May 25, 2005 09:43 PM

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Slime is an understatement How could someone do that?

lanikai Posted: May 25, 2005 10:31 PM

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That is so terrible. What a slimeball. I feel so bad for your FHs friend.

ssdbk Posted: May 26, 2005 12:16 AM

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Well, I can see why you posted it here instead of immediately discussing it with the people who might be really hurt by it.

Did they actually have sexual intercourse right there? eeeeeeeeeewwww.

WedHead Posted: May 26, 2005 12:39 AM

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I trust FH but if a bachelor party is all in fun, then I say enjoy but there's no reason my father and his can't be invited. If he's not doing anything he should be embarassed by, then why not? (FH teases that my father would probably enjoy the strippers more than him - he's a bachelor ).
I think it's gross that the tradition is for someone to have a lap dance by a complete stranger to celebrate their marriage.
I think I'd disown my brothers if they ever stood by and witnessed that, and didn't report back to me. And, furthermore, what the hell is wrong with these guys that they'd watch another man have sex?
Disgusting!

amazon_gracie Posted: May 26, 2005 01:23 AM

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OMG! I'm sooooo disturbed and disgusted! What a horrible thing to do. I get nervous just thinking about FH's bachelor party. I trust him but I don't trust some of his friends.