I am so disgusted, can you believe this?

Yeah, that groom was horrible and so was the brother. There's nothing you can say now, and since your FH doesn't hang out with him too much anymore you don't have to worry about him condoning that behavior when they go out.

I think the issue with Bachelor Parties is that each couple---well each person---has there own tolerance level. FH and his friends leave on Friday morning for his BP........in CANCUN. Yeah, I know it's going to get crazy. FH is the first one of his friends to get married and I don't think any of them have Significant others right now (one just broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years). If you are going to have a Bachelorette Party and your FH is going to have a BP then you two should discuss your personal 'level of comfortness'. For example, I'm fine if FH gets a lapdance, but a poster above is not. Anything other than that I'm not okay with.... Oh gosh, ya'll have me nervous for this weekend. I may need to talk to FH again....

But I'm hoping FH friends would be too drunk to think about him. I know his friends all love me and they are good guys so I'm hoping they wouldn't try to do anything that would ruin the trust in our relationship. But they are HIS friends and their allegiance is to him. I tried to get my brother to go (his allegiance would be to me , not like the scum bag brother the original poster mentioned) but he couldn't get his $$ together in time.

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

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Posted by FutureAJ8505

If that was my brother, I would not have been attending a wedding, I would be at a funeral.
That is disgusting.

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EXACTLY!!!!!!!!1

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That's what I was thinking. Not to be too disgusting - but does your FH know if he was protected when he did that? That poor lady could be in for bigger problems than she knows if he was not . . . (Just a thought. I always fear that when I hear these stories.)

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Posted by stacy&joe

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

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Posted by FutureAJ8505

If that was my brother, I would not have been attending a wedding, I would be at a funeral.
That is disgusting.

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EXACTLY!!!!!!!!1

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That's what I was thinking. Not to be too disgusting - but does your FH know if he was protected when he did that? That poor lady could be in for bigger problems than she knows if he was not . . . (Just a thought. I always fear that when I hear these stories.)

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Omg- didn't even THINK about that. And this woman is pregnant!!!!!

That is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard...I can't believe it I am picking my jaw up off the floor

Why do men have to be such pigs sometimes?

My Fh went to a BP last summer for his best friend...one of the guys at the party licked whipped cream off the strippers bare boobs...in front of the whole party. ( not nearly as bad as the story above ) This same guy had just closed on a new house with his FH the day before the BP.

UGH! I wish they would pull this thread. everytime I see it it gets me mad all over again!!

I know I feel like I am going to vomit just seeing the title. This jerk is absolute scum for doing that.