I am so pissssssed and upset at the same time....long vent

angl2001 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 11:49 PM

I am so pissssssed and upset at the same time....long vent

ok so....I was pissed at my Aunt and her 3 daughters. I sent them invites to my E-party and they never RSVP or showed up i was upset and my parents were very angry ( especially my mom cause its her side of the family) . My mom tried emailing them and calling them even after the rsvp date to see if maybe they didnt get the invite........no reply to the emails and no call back. ok now my nrother sent out his E-party invites ( they are getting married in 2009) and the same people havent RSVP and the RSVP date was today. My family is soooooooooooo angry as is my FH

We have decided that we are not inviting them to the wedding we would much rather fill those seats with people we want there and who want to be there themselves! Now should something happen between now and then i dont care! I already told my brother cause he is thinking of not invitng them all either if they dont call and RSVP soon. I am just afraid that if we dont invite them to ours and my brother has a change of heart that they will screw him over on his wedding day. Otherwise i dont care! my parents even said they dont blame me for not wanting to and they wont be mad if i don't!! i am just so pissed that family can be like this. Also my aunts daughters arent kids they are grown women with husbands and kids!!!!!!!!!! ugggggggggggggggg i am just so pissed!!! so annoyed that they are doing this. There is no reason for them to ignore us and act like this they just took it upon themselves to be a$$es!!!!!!!!!!!!

sorry for the vent ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh i feel better!

Espo22 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 11:52 PM

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that is uncalled for and can't believe they did that. I guess they don't know what to say to your mother and that is why they're not responding

sorry

bemyyoko Posted: Jul 29, 2007 11:54 PM

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ugh
that su cks
I'm sorry!
i wouldnt want to invite them to the wedding either

angl2001 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 11:54 PM

Re: I am so pissssssed and upset at the same time....long vent

the thing is nothing happened lol! there is no feud going on or anything....actually last summer they got an invite to my cousins daughters sweet sixteen and they couldnt go but they sent her a check and a card. its just messed up they just woke up 1 morning and said ok lets not talk to them anymore. I even sent a message to my 1 cousin on myspace to get her mailing address and told her i was sending the E-party invites!! she said ok great and sent me the address and her new hubbys name!! i just dont get people

bella1028 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 11:59 PM

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I'm sorry...sometimes it amazes me that family can act the way they do sometimes

JeanetteandSteve Posted: Jul 30, 2007 12:03 AM

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wow i'm sorry to hear that...it's rude and ESPECIALLY nasty that they are family doing this to you and to your brother.

but your day will be so much better w/o them...i think you're making the right decision.

ArmyOfBabies Posted: Jul 30, 2007 01:34 AM

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You already know how I feel about this... forget them!!! Beside, I'm gonna be there so who else do you REALLY need... lol... I guess your FH!

jgl Posted: Jul 30, 2007 01:41 AM

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well you cant worry about your brother changing his mind.. you do what you feel is appropriate when your time comes to send out invites.

the bottom line is that some thing miraculous might happen after not inviting them to yours and they appologize and are forgiven then are invited to your brothers..

just go with what your brain is telling you to do.

angl2001 Posted: Jul 30, 2007 02:38 AM

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thanks ladies and jeri.............. i love that pic lol im making a stupid face

chrispar Posted: Jul 30, 2007 06:21 AM

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Wow that is really inconsiderate that they didn't respond. I don't blame you for not wanting to invite them.

Kimbalina Posted: Jul 30, 2007 07:16 AM

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Well I think that you should really try and touch base with them! Although, they are completely in the wrong. I dont like the non-responsive-ness (if that is a word!) But remember for how they are acting what goes around comes around!
Good luck,, and dont let these 'family members' get you stressed out!

catsgirl Posted: Jul 30, 2007 07:21 AM

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sorry.

angl2001 Posted: Jul 30, 2007 11:28 AM

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Posted by Kimbalina

Well I think that you should really try and touch base with them! Although, they are completely in the wrong. I dont like the non-responsive-ness (if that is a word!) But remember for how they are acting what goes around comes around!
Good luck,, and dont let these 'family members' get you stressed out!

thanks chickie! i still have time yet before theinvites go out so we will see