I am so sick of my family

I have spoken to my grandmother twice this weekend, and she has decided NOT to attend my wedding because my father is NOT welcome there anymore. It got to the point where I had to tell her all the horrible things he has said to me in the past year, (like him calling me a 'heartless B****', which is why he is not welcome) which I didn't want to do, because I dont really want to create more family problems. Now that whole side of the family isn't going to go because 'grandma's not going' and this is like TWENTY PEOPLE!!! At the rate things are going I will have no family at the wedding.

i am so sorry to hear all this....its hard when family things like this happen... to you

I am so sorry you have to go through this. Remember something, this is your day and although this is very hurtful, if they are choose to not celebrate with you, it is a decission they will have to live with, and can never take back or relive. Through it all, you need to think about the new family you are about to start and enjoy your day. I wish you all the best,,,lots of hugs, be stronge and things will work out for the best.