I am so stressed about everything.....

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 06:10 AM

I am so stressed about everything.....

I was pretty calm yesterday...until the veil thing happened and then little by little things started going wrong...and I let it ruin part of my RD.... I am so mad at myself for that

69 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 06:48 AM

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It's tough to keep it together when things are nuts......

if it helps, I understand that and I know that most of us do.. your not alone in that!

Happybride2005 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 08:34 AM

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try to stay calm today. you'll have a beautiful day tomorrow

Kiddo115 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 09:11 AM

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You've put in countless hours of work for this day, and it's easy to become upset becaus7of 'little things'. But please for your sake, try your very best to let things slide, as it will make you feel a hundred times better. Unless it's a huge deal, brush it off. My motto the last three days was 'the hell with it!' Lots went wrong, but in the end I knew I was still going to be married!

As my dad put it, I was the calm in the storm. They were expecting a reaction from me after all that hit the fan, but no one got one. And I think it made me better ready and relaxed for the day because I just let go, and let things happen as they did.

YOU'RE going to the chapel Kathleen, so enjoy your last moments as a single gal with your family and friends! And tell anyone who gives you trouble to 'Bug Off!' (Clean version for LIW, but you get the point )

October Bliss Posted: Jul 15, 2006 09:37 AM

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Kathleen - at this point whatever happens, happens. There is nothing you can do. Try to just go with the flow. You are marrying the man of your dreams TOMORROW. To heck with everything and everyone else!!!

hmpena Posted: Jul 15, 2006 09:38 AM

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Kathleen,

I sent you FM. Try to enjoy yourself... if you stress about things that may or may not happen, you won't truly enjoy the day that you've worked so hard for. You're going to have a fantastic wedding no matter what!

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Jul 15, 2006 09:39 AM

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You can't let anything ruin your day tomorrow, no matter what! It's only one day, and you can only do it once. You really have to just enjoy it to the fullest. Relax, because in the end, you're marrying your FH and that is all that matters

M&LSept1606 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 10:25 AM

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try to stay calm. You have been posting your little heart out & stressing about all these things. This close to your day you can't change what happens. my mom used to say 'whatever will be, will be' LOL she's Italian....but anyway...your WEDDING DAY is tomorrow!!!! you can't stress or you'll grow a pimple tonight!!!!

take things with a grain of salt-all this planning is going to come together tomorrow...not in 69 days, not in 2 weeks, it's TOMORROW!!!! Enjoy it, and have a glass a red wine it will calm your nerves. Start drinking in the morning if you have to!!

Have a great wedding and honeymoon!

CTarantino Posted: Jul 15, 2006 10:37 AM

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Kathleen, seriously I know you and you stress about almost everything so I am sure you wedding would be no different.
Please, stay calm and remember you can't have this time back. I want you to look back at this weekend and day and not think how much things bothered you. HELLO? My hall was in shambles the day of my wedding.
Think about it, you are throwing a big party for all your friends and family. You are surrounded by everyone that loves you. Things will happen through out the day. TRY NOT TO LET IT BUG YOU!!!!!!!!!! CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't ruin your rehearsal, wedding, or whatever else comes your way. Life is too short for that crap!
DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF!!! (it's a book)
read it on your honeymoon

Seriously, Have an amazing wedding and try and enjoy. You will be a stunning bride and I can't wait to hear all the details and see the pics. Congraulations to you and Tim.!
YOU NEED A VACATION..Enjoy the honeymoon.

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 10:37 AM

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Thank you everyone...FOR EVERYTHING!

I am a high strung person by nature....I need to calm myself...things are starting to come together and things I was worrying about are ok now

patticakes Posted: Jul 15, 2006 10:59 AM

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I know you must be so overwhelmed and sort of fed up but try and be excited! Tomorrow morning NOTHING will ruin your day! You are marrying your best friend!!!

sarahbelle Posted: Jul 15, 2006 11:01 AM

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It's so easy to get overwhelmed. Try to relax and just enjoy your big day. Don't let little things get to you. You'll have a beautiful day!

bridy06 Posted: Jul 15, 2006 11:02 AM

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No worries!!!
Things are bound to go wrong - it is human nature. Brace yourself so that if something does go wrong, it is like you expected it. And if all goes smoothly - you will be even more pleasantly surprised and happy!!!!

TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!