I am so stressed out........

Original post by princess99

May 08, 2003 10:37 AM

As many of you know I am planning this wedding without either parent, they both have passed away. I am so stressed out , my blood pressure is up, and I am headachy and want to just crawl under a rock. Last week I got my shoes and there was no mom or dad to show them to unless I go to the cemetary. My Fh is great about doing things, as well as my older sister, but she every once in a while gets weird at times, she is my sister not my Mom or dad, she is good and then she says to me , well, think of how I felt when I got married, Mom was not there etc. It feels like everyhting is falling on me, and like I said my Fh is great, but then again it always falls on the bride. Any suggestions, before I just drown myself in tears???????

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: May 08, 2003 09:14 PM

Re: I am so stressed out........

First off here are some hugs
Listen, take a deep breath and try( i know it is hard) and relax. Everything will work out. try to remember that you parents are looking, guiding and watching over you at all times. They are angels that will sit on your shoulders for ever.
So when you feel like you need them just place your hands on your shoulders and know that they can see you.

I feel for you and I hope you won't cry,please don't cry.