So many people are not coming to my wedding tthat I thought would. We are missing 23 invitiations and our date was this past sunday. People keep saying no and its very disappointing. We invited like 220 people and our min. is 175. Without vendors we don't think we will meet out min. I am just so mad at some people. They have know about this for 2 years.
MrsJ08
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I know it's disapointting, but the people who love you and support you will be there...Do you have a 'B' list?
Newsysuzy12
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I know how you feel...I am counting my musicians as guests to make my minimum. It can feel heartbreaking! If all else fails, some of us will come.
Two Peas
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Are their reasons for coming valid? Im sorry that is happening to you...It's such a terrible feeling when people don't come through.
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Posted by Cheryl28
So many people are not coming to my wedding tthat I thought would. We are missing 23 invitiations and our date was this past sunday. People keep saying no and its very disappointing. We invited like 220 people and our min. is 175. Without vendors we don't think we will meet out min. I am just so mad at some people. They have know about this for 2 years.
I totally feel for you!!! we had the same problem! People I saw at my shower who said to my face 'see you at the wedding ' RSVP'd no. I don't understand. FH and I were really dissapointed in some people. edited to say :so sorry it happened to you too!
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Posted by Cheryl28
So many people are not coming to my wedding tthat I thought would. We are missing 23 invitiations and our date was this past sunday. People keep saying no and its very disappointing. We invited like 220 people and our min. is 175. Without vendors we don't think we will meet out min. I am just so mad at some people. They have know about this for 2 years.
I know how you feel. I'm in the same spot. We invited a lot of people and we're missing about 70 responses.
Are there people you wanted to invite but couldn't because of space?
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We went through the same thing. We invited 150 and in the end only had 79, our minimum was 100. But in the end it still felt like a lot of people and we knew that all of the people that were there really wanted to be there. I know its disappointing, but try not to let it upset you too much.
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I'm sorry this is happening to you, but don't feel too horrible. . . they say that 20% of people respond 'no', and 175 / 220 is right around there. I think it was probably a pretty common RSVP %. . .
Your day will be amazing because the people that matter most will be there don't let this get you down
ItalianBride428
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I am so sorry but I understand why you are upset, it is very stressful!! Do you have an alternate list you can invite from?
futuremrsfab
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Sorry that people are saying no- the people that count will be there
jaep129
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Me too. Dont worry. Peopel that said they were coming (FH Family from Upstate) are not coming. My family from Ohio, Jersy, Arizonia, and California are coming but his family from two hours away are not! Its so annoying. It hurts too!
