Maid of honor out of my wedding. She is beginning to think that my wedding is hers and I am getting pissed off.
1st of all, we spoke about my BP since last year Febuary and agreed that it will take place on my b-day in my but if she can't have it then she need to have it in April or May but not in June because I'm going to have to much going on. My sons graduation, my dad will be up here and he is blind so I'm going to need to pay as much attention to him as possible. Also I hve another profession and I have three engagements.
Then she don't like the color of the guys vest and started yelling and screaming over the phone about that. So we had this big agruement and I am just pissed off. What should I do?
SANDYROODY
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Communication is key. I say you should have a heart-to-heart with her and let he know that, planning your wedding is stressful enough and you don't need the extra stress and aggravation. Part of her role is to help and support you and by yelling and screaming about a decision you made about YOUR WEDDING is just wrong.
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you should breathe.....maybe make a drink....
Sorry that is crappy...sometimes family and friends can be the worst...
I really don't have any good advice...sorry.
heres is a hug though...
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first and fore most you should stay calm. Once youve calmed down you need to call her back and say in the kindest tone possible 'LOOK this is MY wedding and you need to get with it or keep it moving' okay not like that but honestly she needs to be more considerate. it sounds like you have enough to worry about other than her random dramatical out burts. Im sure that since shes your MOH you guys have been friends for a long time and we all have ou moments. so give it some time if the behavior continues then do what you have to do to keep your wedding as stress free as possible
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I have to say that my future BIL had to 'fire' his best man. The guy agreed to be BIL's best man and then became a born again Christian (not that there is anything wrong with that) but afterwards he tried to make BIL and SIL change their wedding plans so that it conformed to his religous beliefs. Needless to say it was upsetting but they had to do what was right for them and you have to do what's right for you
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Posted by SANDYROODY
Communication is key. I say you should have a heart-to-heart with her and let he know that, planning your wedding is stressful enough and you don't need the extra stress and aggravation. Part of her role is to help and support you and by yelling and screaming about a decision you made about YOUR WEDDING is just wrong.
You are absolutely right, thanks.
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Posted by katleigh3
you should breathe.....maybe make a drink....
Sorry that is crappy...sometimes family and friends can be the worst...
I really don't have any good advice...sorry.
heres is a hug though...
Thanks for the huge...I needed that.
SAMORY
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Posted by RnKHStill4eva
first and fore most you should stay calm. Once youve calmed down you need to call her back and say in the kindest tone possible 'LOOK this is MY wedding and you need to get with it or keep it moving' okay not like that but honestly she needs to be more considerate. it sounds like you have enough to worry about other than her random dramatical out burts. Im sure that since shes your MOH you guys have been friends for a long time and we all have ou moments. so give it some time if the behavior continues then do what you have to do to keep your wedding as stress free as possible
We've been friends for over 25 years and I did not know she was so pushy.
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Posted by TheresaG
I have to say that my future BIL had to 'fire' his best man. The guy agreed to be BIL's best man and then became a born again Christian (not that there is anything wrong with that) but afterwards he tried to make BIL and SIL change their wedding plans so that it conformed to his religous beliefs. Needless to say it was upsetting but they had to do what was right for them and you have to do what's right for you
