I am starting to HATE working with FH.

mybabylovesmoi Posted: May 03, 2011 10:54 AM

I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Since FH and I work in the same office, it's not a secret that we are getting married and I'm CONSTANTLY hearing

'so, HOW many days is it now?'
'Are you getting nervous/stressed out/excited???'
'June is NEXT month!'
'Wow, so is everything done?'

And the most irritating - 'Are you ready?'

I get asked all or a combination of these questions a dozen times a day. I am cringing at the thought that it will only get worse as it gets closer.

AHHHHH i should've kept it a secret

jettahot Posted: May 03, 2011 11:01 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

haha FH and I work in the same office too, can be annoying at times.....

Moonmist09 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:02 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

VCanizalez Posted: May 03, 2011 11:07 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

I am SOO sorry chica...

Fh and I Dont work together but we still get that...

a combinitation of ur questions plus

'U sure u want to get married?'
'Life changes after that.. u know?'
'I cant believe u are getting married for realz'

PPL are Annoying sometuimes!!!

They asked me ALL the time...
'So hows weedding planning?' then ppl say 'I cant believe how tjhis brides are this day.. spending so muhc $ My wedding wasnt like that or I dont want to spend money on my wedding i just want dinner..

I wanna tell ppl
SHUT THE FF UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS MY LIFEEEEEEEE LEAVE ME ALONE AND YES I DO WANT TO GET MARRIED AND I AM READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ColliMac23 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:08 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

LOL

ColliMac23 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:10 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Posted by VCanizalez

I am SOO sorry chica...

Fh and I Dont work together but we still get that...

a combinitation of ur questions plus

'U sure u want to get married?'
'Life changes after that.. u know?'
'I cant believe u are getting married for realz'

PPL are Annoying sometuimes!!!

They asked me ALL the time...
'So hows weedding planning?' then ppl say 'I cant believe how tjhis brides are this day.. spending so muhc $ My wedding wasnt like that or I dont want to spend money on my wedding i just want dinner..

I wanna tell ppl
SHUT THE FF UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS MY LIFEEEEEEEE LEAVE ME ALONE AND YES I DO WANT TO GET MARRIED AND I AM READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had a girl who isn't in my Bridal Party anymore talking ish about how much I was spending and how redic I am LOL W.E. She was like $30,000 is a lot for a Wedding I was like I wish it was only that! You did want to eat right? LOL

martea36 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:12 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Luckily mine is a secret around the office... only a few people know.

VCanizalez Posted: May 03, 2011 11:13 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by VCanizalez

I am SOO sorry chica...

Fh and I Dont work together but we still get that...

a combinitation of ur questions plus

'U sure u want to get married?'
'Life changes after that.. u know?'
'I cant believe u are getting married for realz'

PPL are Annoying sometuimes!!!

They asked me ALL the time...
'So hows weedding planning?' then ppl say 'I cant believe how tjhis brides are this day.. spending so muhc $ My wedding wasnt like that or I dont want to spend money on my wedding i just want dinner..

I wanna tell ppl
SHUT THE FF UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS MY LIFEEEEEEEE LEAVE ME ALONE AND YES I DO WANT TO GET MARRIED AND I AM READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had a girl who isn't in my Bridal Party anymore talking ish about how much I was spending and how redic I am LOL W.E. She was like $30,000 is a lot for a Wedding I was like I wish it was only that! You did want to eat right? LOL

Wow!!

Well U aint spending the money RIGHT?????
So WHY DOES THIS HURTS U?!!!
This is MY life and I am spending what I #WANT!!!

Eck! Ppl are so annoying !!!

mybabylovesmoi Posted: May 03, 2011 11:13 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Posted by ColliMac23

Posted by VCanizalez

I am SOO sorry chica...

Fh and I Dont work together but we still get that...

a combinitation of ur questions plus

'U sure u want to get married?'
'Life changes after that.. u know?'
'I cant believe u are getting married for realz'

PPL are Annoying sometuimes!!!

They asked me ALL the time...
'So hows weedding planning?' then ppl say 'I cant believe how tjhis brides are this day.. spending so muhc $ My wedding wasnt like that or I dont want to spend money on my wedding i just want dinner..

I wanna tell ppl
SHUT THE FF UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS MY LIFEEEEEEEE LEAVE ME ALONE AND YES I DO WANT TO GET MARRIED AND I AM READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had a girl who isn't in my Bridal Party anymore talking ish about how much I was spending and how redic I am LOL W.E. She was like $30,000 is a lot for a Wedding I was like I wish it was only that! You did want to eat right? LOL

yup, my MOH was so shocked when I told her where we were at spending wise. And I'm having a small wedding!

I get that a lot from my mom and others about the money thing too and it's super annoying!!!!!!!!!!!! FH and I work and we shop around when we can but if we splurge on something important to us, deal with it!

rosatemp Posted: May 03, 2011 11:16 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

i think it doesnt matter if you work together or not because we all get asked these damn questions everyday and it tends to be stressing us out...im sorry hun cheer up

Lana and Johan Posted: May 03, 2011 11:18 AM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Posted by rosatemp

i think it doesnt matter if you work together or not because we all get asked these damn questions everyday and it tends to be stressing us out...im sorry hun cheer up

Ditto. I dont work with FH and we still get the same ANNOYING comments and Qs

Tromsugar2b Posted: May 03, 2011 12:43 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

LMAO I hate those questions when we dont work in the same office. haha

kimmaymb20 Posted: May 03, 2011 01:50 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Don't worry I got the same stupid questions and I don't work with the hubster. And then wait till after the wedding... How's married life questions.

evita2781 Posted: May 03, 2011 02:27 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

oh jeesh - that's so annoying!!!! i dont think you would've been able to hide this though!!

alexisny Posted: May 03, 2011 06:43 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

I don't work in the same office as my FH but I do get similar questions and I'm usually short with my answers. I usually smile and just say something along the lines of 'everything is going great'. Also, I'm not inviting everyone in the office so I feel guilty talking about the wedding to people I'm not inviting so I just try to keep it short as possible and not go into details.

IrishAli Posted: May 03, 2011 06:49 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

Ohhhhh so annoying

0216bahama Posted: May 03, 2011 07:14 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

I dont work with my FH, but I get the same questions at work and it is pretty annoying. As the time is coming closer people are asking more questions. Most annoying part the same people ask me the same questions over and over again... I know they are just excited so I bite my tongue at it all!

FutureMcBride Posted: May 03, 2011 07:24 PM

Re: I am starting to HATE working with FH.

hate to say it but you would get these questions whether you worked with him or not! I hear the same questions EVERY day. I should just print a flyer and post it with all of my answers.