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ItalianBride428 Posted:

I am sure this has been asked before but....

Where are you 'supposed' to have the grooms cake? at the RD or reception??

Wedding999 Posted:

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Back in the old days it was done at the reception - but most people moved it the rehersal - it gets more attention and makes a little more sense.

ItalianBride428 Posted:

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hmmm, I think I favor the RD idea...

MrsD71208 Posted:

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I say RD.....unless your wedding follows the theme, or some type of theme with his cake, I think it wouldn't 'fit in'...I dunno, that's just me.

ItalianBride428 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

I say RD.....unless your wedding follows the theme, or some type of theme with his cake, I think it wouldn't 'fit in'...I dunno, that's just me.



thats what I am thinking also...The few cakes I have in mind for him would NOT go with the wedding... is that bridezilla of me?
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by ItalianBride428


Posted by MrsDtoBe

I say RD.....unless your wedding follows the theme, or some type of theme with his cake, I think it wouldn't 'fit in'...I dunno, that's just me.



thats what I am thinking also...The few cakes I have in mind for him would NOT go with the wedding... is that bridezilla of me?



No that isn't bridezilla of you. Do it for the RD where it will get noticed more.
Kimbalina Posted:

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I dont know!!! I was trying to think about that and I am not sure.. however I mean the cake is about him and not US so I think it is more of a non wedding item.

Sugaplum08 Posted:

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i was just htinking about the grooms cake this morning, ill probably do it at the rehearsal dinner

angl2001 Posted:

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ive seen it done at both....i dont think it really matters. Mostly at the RD but i have also seen it at a wedding

Espo22 Posted:

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Well traditionally its the reception, but recently people have been doing the RD so either one. Im doing it at the reception bc alot of things at the wedding is what the bride wants such as colors, flowers, and all decor so this way at the wedding we'll have something that represents him, although i am incorporating other things that are him too. Plus for me i want my guests to see the cake, at the RD it will just be BP and OOT guests, this way more people get to see it. Plus i will do the traditional thing and give a slice to single ladies to take home.

ItalianBride428 Posted:

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thanks ladies for the info...

The cake I want is a replica of an old car FH had that was his baby...lol.
If I had it at the reception, only a select few would know that anyway so...I think I will go for the RD idea...lol
SoontobeMrsMc Posted:

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I'm totally lost.... What's a groom's cake? They get a seperate cake? I seriously know nothing about planning a wedding! lol

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