I asked a BM still no answer

I asked a BM still no answer

Ok so last week I sent out will you be my bridesmaid card. I made them Hehehe

2 of the 3 girls got there cards were so excited called screaming and yelling so happy!

girl #3 still no call....
still no RSVP to engaement party

I dont wanna call her and be like so will you?

Should I just assume she is a no?

She lives upstate, so maybe she is hesitant on saying yes for that reason?

I'm really dissappointed, now I wonder if I even want her has a BM?

Re: I asked a BM still no answer

I WOULD GIVE HER A CALL BECAUSE MAYBE SHE DIDNT GET IT IN THE MAIL. GOOD LUCK!!

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Re: I asked a BM still no answer

Are you sure that she is not away??? Anything could happen with the mail believe me I know.

Re: I asked a BM still no answer

do you have the address exactly correct ...I used to live upstate and someone sent us something where the street was spelled incorrectly. We did not get the christmas card until EASTER

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Re: I asked a BM still no answer

call her either way. maybe she mixed feelings about your wedding-insecurities or whatever. A card is great as a first gesture, but you have to call her to follow up!

Re: I asked a BM still no answer

maybe she is away....give her the benefit of the doubt....she was important enough for you to choose her, she at least deserves a call

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Maybe, as cute as it was to send a card, she was a little put off that you didn't call? Call her...clear the air, stop driving yourself crazy. Some people need more coddling. (sp)