Well, my FH came in last night, I didnt even get a kiss and he laid down in bed next to me to go to sleep.... I asked him what was wrong as he spilled his guts... He said that I told you I wanted to move in together first... I didnt want to spend so much on a wedding etc!!
Ummm hello... where was I when he was telling me these things.. I think he was thinking them but never told me.. I thought we decided to live with our parents to have a nice wedding and then move out. His exact words were I want what you want, I want you to be happy.. I know you want a big wedding of your dreams.. bla bla bla...
So anyway... After a long discussion.. I may be giving up my deposit at the JT and we will move in together 3/1 and end up having a smaller wedding somewhere upstate by my lake house :(
I am totally sad.. but I kind of agree about the $$, Im embarrassed b/c the WHOLE world knows the date and the place already.... I just bought a WHOLE BUNCH of save the dates YESTERDAY!! :( SO sad :(
GroomsMom
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Re: I believe the wedding has been called off :(
What if you changed the day to an afternoon, lowered your minimum, did less expensive extras?
betty2005
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I'm sorry. But, I have to agree with many of the posts--its probably all for the best and a wedding by the lake will be fabulous--Great pictures!!!
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The Jericho Terrace is already a Sunday Afternoon. Im only paying $60/head but its a 175 mionimum. May family is SO big and SO close and all live in Nassau County, which means EVERYONE will show up ( I know my family) We have a list over 200.
He called me up last night and said he wants me to have our wedding at the JT, but now I dont know what to do...What does he REALLY want?
GroomsMom
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He might just be getting a little nervous. It is a bit overwelming. Remind him of all the gifts (money) that you would be getting from the wedding. That makes a big difference. I bet he didn't think of it that way. (I know I'm terrible)
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Posted by amy&anthony
The Jericho Terrace is already a Sunday Afternoon. Im only paying $60/head but its a 175 mionimum. May family is SO big and SO close and all live in Nassau County, which means EVERYONE will show up ( I know my family) We have a list over 200.
He called me up last night and said he wants me to have our wedding at the JT, but now I dont know what to do...What does he REALLY want?
That's something you two need to discuss. He is upset that he hurt your feelings now. Sit him down and flat out ask him what he wants. Then you two can come up with a comprimise.
Borricuamorena0905
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Have your wedding, and really try to keep it at 175 or 200 the most.. He wants you to be happy because he said , have it at JT, so I think in turn , u make him happy by limiting the people, so u guys don't spend so much..
