I Broke Down & spent more money &

.. Got a DOC.

I know. I am a type A personality & Soo thought there was no way I would need one. But my wedding ceremony is in the morning (guez 10:30 am which means I am up anyway at like 5am..ugh) & there is no way I can be in two places at once (make that three, church, reception hall & hotel for setups!).

So despite the fact that I can't imagine spending even more money & thinking that I should be able to handle everything myself. I thought against it & bite the bullet. I mean I would normally do everything myself but I have my own business & am going to be extra busy around the exact time of the wedding!

Please help me feel less bad about spending more money & not doing it all myself. I feel so guilty..

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Posted by TJ22908

I think if it makes your life easier that it worth the money!!! Its your day you want to be able to enjoy it not be stressed!!

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Thanks, I really appreciate it. I am usually the one organizing at parties & I never really get to sit back & enjoy, so I wanted to on this one day. But I am at the point that every dollar more is making me wince. I try to be sensible & this was so hard for me to commit to. But I had to do something, because while my BP said they would help I certainly did not want to make them run all over the place. I want them to enjoy themselves too

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Posted by Celest

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Posted by TJ22908

I think if it makes your life easier that it worth the money!!! Its your day you want to be able to enjoy it not be stressed!!

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Thanks, I really appreciate it. I am usually the one organizing at parties & I never really get to sit back & enjoy, so I wanted to on this one day. But I am at the point that every dollar more is making me wince. I try to be sensible & this was so hard for me to commit to. But I had to do something, because while my BP said they would help I certainly did not want to make them run all over the place. I want them to enjoy themselves too

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You deserve to enjoy yourself, I understand about the money we are about 28 days away and the money gets so stressfull!!!

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Posted by MrsV2be

it'll be worth your money.. i'm the same way.. and i got a DOC as well.. all the while before, i swore i didn't need one.. but after seeing the mayhem at my engagement party, i just got one!!

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THANK YOU. Someone who understands my thoughts. Good to hear you did one too. & that was I am trying to avoid.. mayhem!

you do need to sit back and enjoy. You did more than enough work before the wedding so i think its a great idea. Now if i can only remember to book a DOC, i keep forgetting

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Posted by Espo22

you do need to sit back and enjoy. You did more than enough work before the wedding so i think its a great idea. Now if i can only remember to book a DOC, i keep forgetting

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Thanks

You should call one TODAY if u want to book. The one I wanted was booked but I am going with one of her girls (which are incredible anyway) But you will be surprised how quickly they get booked!

you will thankyourself a week after you are married.

There is no way in h@ll that I could manage everything that day!!

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Posted by Ms Sawney

if it will make your life easier since you will be busy around the time of your wedding then you have done something that benefited you so money well spent

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Thanks. You are right!

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Posted by MrsK2008

you will thankyourself a week after you are married.

There is no way in h@ll that I could manage everything that day!!

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Thanks! well u r super bride, & you are doing so much yourself! I had to get out of the mentality that I have to do every single thing myself, because I was starting to drive myself nuts.

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Posted by SparkyandAng

I absolutely think that anything that reduces your stress level and allows you to enjoy your wedding more, is well worth every single penny.

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Yeah!!!. You are right . Actually this may be the one thing that I will will give me less work than more at the wedding..lol.

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Posted by madseason

you made the right decision

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You just made me feel

hahahaha

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Posted by thefurturetrotman

I got a DOC from Perfect Wedding Planners. Spend the money. Which one would you rather having a stressful wedding and you looking like someone hit you with a truck in your pics or have a no-stress day and look perfect in your pics.

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touché (did I spell that right?)

Very valid points, & I will make that in my head as I writ my check out now!