i came so close to having a breakdown today

Original post by shoegal68

Jan 16, 2008 07:20 PM

i will spare you all the details. my sister/MOH continues to be a thorn in my side with the planning. i tried talking to her & nothing seems to work. i feel like this is wedding is an inconvenience to everybody i just sat my desk today & cried. i know i shouldn't feel this way but i can't wait for it be over with now.. i am making an appointment with my doctor tomorrow to go on Xanax to get me through the next few months. i swear i have not been difficult at all.. maybe too understanding. i didn't have a BP so i can avoid the drama. what a joke. one person is causing me so much stress...... my own sister.

thanks for listening.

MrsK2008 Posted: Jan 17, 2008 12:57 PM

Re: i came so close to having a breakdown today

I am also going through the sister drama. It's a nightmare. It started when I asked her to share MOH responsibilities with my best friend. My sis lives 1400 miles away and there is quite literally nothing she can do to help me.

My sis is throwing a shower for me in Kansas that she has no intentions of inviting any of my friends or other bridesmaids to, just Kansas folk. LOL and I have have to pay to get there. = )

Chin up. I had a mental break down last week and I am better for it now. I cried for 3 days straight. I finally realized that no matter how much of a ***** she is or will be I am getting married to a man I love and I will be happy, happy, happy.

I wish I could be of more comfort to you!

LeeLee111 Posted: Jan 17, 2008 01:01 PM

Re: i came so close to having a breakdown today

I'm sorry you're going through this, unfortuntaely if theres one thing wedding planning has taught me its that the people who you should rely on the most will let you down and others will come flocking to your side for support. Hang in there