I can not believe FH's twin brother

I can not believe FH's twin brother

He has completely hurt my baby. FH called him to let him know that we had gotten a discount rate with American Airlines for flight and the A!@!@@$ told FH. 'I told you I wasn't going to go'. Well thats totally not true and FH says to him 'You know you are My BestMAN? What a d@!@@. How can your twin be so cold. FH and I understand that travel ETC can be costly, especially if you are planning to bring the whole family (thats 4 total, if his nasty wife and beautiful children came) But then he should of said no before. We have been planning for over a year. I know that money can be tight, but gosh your own twin brother.... If you can't afford to bring everyone, I would think he would at least come on his own. I am beyond pissed of

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I'm sorry, thats really horrible!!

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I just can't believe it. I know part of it is dictated by his wife. She is ridiculous. She is so ridiculous that she wouldn't even contribute to a surprise b-day party that I planned on March 25th for FH and bro b-day, after saying she would. I would have just had the party in honor of my baby, but I am too nice and just thought it would be nice to make it for both of them. After I had purchased everything, ran around like a chicken without a head when I got down to Miami (I live in Philly) and then divided up the totals amongst myself, her and my Fh's sister (Who I love), She had the balls to see 'i'm not paying for that, that's ridiculous, its only for of us ... ahh I guess she forgot it was a party with guest... not to mention the total when divided amongst three was only $150.00) She didn't even offer to give anything, or just say I can't/don't have that much money right now. Just to give you a heads up.. this woman however has enough money to plan a special cruise vacation for her birthday

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That is just terrible! his twin brother...gee....I dont have a twin but I have a bro and sis and I couldnt imagine missing their weddings for nothing! I would make sure, no matter what, that I would be there...

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I would be very hurt too.....UHG......THAT IS SO TERRIBLE, MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE BOTH OF YOU. SO NOW YOU GUYS NEED A NEW BEST MAN TOO...... WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS WORLD, IT SEEMS ALL OF US HAVE CRAZY STORIES LIKE THIS........HOW SAD RIGHT

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I think that his behavior is rude and disrespectiful. I cant even imagine how much he hurt your FH by saying those words to him. People just dont understand the degree of their stupidity and the impact of the words that come out of their mouths!

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I know!!! I so totally feel like just having a destination wedding at this point and telling everyone to just F@#$W# off. If they want to be there they can. I am so tired of trying to make everyone happy. What happened.... I thought it was suppose to be about FH and I

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What makes me even angrier is that FH will do anything for his brother. He is such a softy. I would always get annoyed and tell him how much his family, in general tends to expect the most from him, rely on him and always make him feel guilty. Now it is his turn, to have them do something so important to him, like this and look what happens. I hate it.

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what an A$$

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Awww, I bet your FH feels so hurt! I can't even imagine how he feels. People are so greedy these days! The don't help or come unless its free! So sad!

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I'm really sorry to hear about this. I would be devastated if my sister did that to me.

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I WOULD THINK THE SAME

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I am so sorry

Your FH must be so hurt. That is rude and he should be there for his brother.

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that's terrible! i repeat.......what is wrong with these people??????? i can't stand how so many people choose this important time in our lives to be mean and spiteful.
I really feel for your FH. Try to take it easy. If his twin doesn't change, then HE'LL feel really bad when your FH has to choose someone else to take his place by his side at the wedding.

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I would be super pissed as well. That doesnt make any damn sense at all!

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Posted by enjft

I would be super pissed as well. That doesnt make any damn sense at all!

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ditto!!! I can't believe his own TWIN brother would do that!!! I feel so bad for your FH!

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that's disgusting!
I'm not doubting you at all.....but are you sure that he really meant it?
A brother?
That is terrible.
I remember my DH brother used to say things a lot.....but he didn't really mean them and b/c I never had a brother I didn't realize that he didn't mean these things.
DId he mean it? IF so....I am so sorry that is just so awful.
Is your FH upset about it?

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That is awful, do you and his brother get along? Maybe you could try calling him and telling him that FH is hurt that he isnt going to be there-Im sorry I hope it all works out and his wife gets her head out of her @ss

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he agreed to be the best man and suddenly he's not coming??