Why don't you use your family as an excuse? That is going to be extremely expensive for them. 2 weddings in 2 weeks and one of them is in Vegas? That is a little insensitive too on her part.
Posted by milana
Posted by bliss0218
Well I get a phone call this morning from my cousin (A little background info - she has been engaged for 2 years now) first she asks me to be a BM so I said yes. Then she said she wants to have the wedding either the wknd before or 2 wks before in Vegas - do I mind?. WHAT was she thinking! I can't believe it everyone is upset, so I told her to do what she wants it's her wedding.
I just don't understand people. It amazes me, now all of a sudden you want to set a date, why so close to my day? There are how many weekends in a year?![]()
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I am in the same exact situation as you. My cousin has been with her bf for 6 years and then got engaged and decided to have her wedding 3 weeks before mine. I thought i was being selfish by being upset but i just dont undertand how someone can be so inconsiderate of other people especially MY feelings i set my date way before her. Also take into account our family hello?![]()
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Posted by bliss0218
I am going to say something to her sis next week when I see her. I know she was there for this conversation and she had a wedding with 200+ people a few years back. She should know what I am going through and to give her sis the ok to call me and ask me if its ok is messed yup too. I am going to say what i feel to her, it will gt back to her sis but you know what that her decision. I am upset with both of them.
I think that it was selfish of her. Does she not realize that you will have your own wedding things to do and the extra expenses right before your wedding is unnecessary. Not only is she being inconsiderate to you but also to your family. This is going to have more negative effect on her day, I dont think you will have to worry about people showing up to your wedding, especially since hers is so out of the way. I'd rather stay in town than to go all the way to vegas for a wedding.
She does not live here but her sis does. Things in that family are weird so there are certain people to talk to to get ur point across.
Tell her yes I do mind. I've been planning my wedding for months now and I would prefer that you have your wedding in a different month.
