I can't believe my FMIL........

TapOutBride10 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:06 PM

I can't believe my FMIL........

Is going away on a cruise 2 Weeks before our wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is she F**king Kidding me!!!! She tells me she's really going to need a vacation- to relax herself before the big day! What stress! She never asks about the wedding!, she never helps with anything! I told her the other day we should go dress shopping for her- she tells me she does not want me to go with her, and tells me she will show me the dress when she finds it! After I was SO caring and considerate to make sure that I kept her included in my dress shopping experience since she has No daughters of her own- only boys! I want to scream!

Am I wrong for feeling this way? I just feel that it's SO inappropriate for her to up and leave right before the wedding. I'm sure my mother or even myself could use a vacation right before the wedding, but you don't see us planning one. Nor do I have the money!!! But come on! And to boot- his parents have yet to tell us what their contribution to this wedding is, and we have been engaged for over a year now!

20mrsc10 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:10 PM

Re: I can't believe my FMIL........

that's horrible!!

btw-have i told you that i think i used to work with your fh?

Future Mrs P Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:22 PM

Re: I can't believe my FMIL........

OMG thats ridiculous....don't even get my started on mine....I have been asking for the guest list for about 2 months now and its just too hard for her to cut anyone on her list

TapOutBride10 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:27 PM

Re: I can't believe my FMIL........

I have the same problem with mine as well! Get this- she does not even own an address book- SO I had to go hunt down everyone's address on my own- for the save the dates- and my mom tells me that she is having the same problem with getting her list for my shower!