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I can't delegate!!

Linzee636 Posted:

I can't delegate!!

With one month to go, I've suddenly become this DIY bride that I never knew I had in me!

I've created all of these little projects for myself, between ribbons for bubbles, and pastry boxes and labels, programs and table numbers... and I refuse to let anyone help!

I'm my own worst enemy because I'm a control freak!

Anyone else finding it hard to delegate out some of the 'little things' for the wedding??
mariedsgn Posted:

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me! me! me!

I only let my DH help with some of my DIYs - and everyone else was HANDS OFF!!!
AngnShaun Posted:

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Yes... and that was my biggest mistake!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont put too much in your own hands... time runs out quicker that you can imagine!

halfbaked Posted:

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Extremely!!! I wanted to have my hand in every single little thing that we did for the wedding. Until the week before. My mom was baking after the RD on Wednesday night. It was after midnight when I finally left the RD and I did not have it in me to go and bake. I went over early the next morning to help though!

jhines4684 Posted:

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I am. I like to be in control of things. I trust myself over anyone at this point.

saralee1978 Posted:

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I know the feeling....I'm a bit of a perfectionist, so everything has to be done perfectly. To the point that I'm even doing my own shower favors because I don't trust anyone. I have a few DIY ideas planned for the wedding and I don't want anyone helping!

I think this is quite normal behavior for a bride.

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