I cant do this anymore...

I am so stressed out. I have been non-stop for the past few weeks. I literally have time for NOTHING. Every day I have something else to do.. somewhere to go, some appointment to attend to. I dont have the days to take off of work to get things done and Im 85 days away from my wedding.

I cant wait for all this madness to be over & done with. I have a wedding this Sunday, my brothers wedding next Sat & my cousins the following Saturday. On top of that I have appointment after appointment. I am about to FLIP OUT

Thank god Im not that busy at work because I am able to get a few things done here at my desk.

I just want to go to the movies again.. be able to go out to Applebees with friends for dinner.. you know the simple things I took for granted when I wasn't in the middle of all this planning madness!

OMG.. The dude I work for just told me that today is the head of our departments 50th birthday so I need to find out where to get a singing ape to come to the office..

Oh boy... I need to be abducted by aliens right now.. take me away.....

dont stress...think about the joy you will feel in a few months when you finally marry the man of your dreams!!!

just think about how great your day will be. i know how you feel, BELIEVE me. I've had no help from anyone (and no thank yous for doing everything!)

FM me if you need support!

Janie don't stress! Trust me your day will be here before you know it and you will finally have your life back.

Oh Janie--Don't worry or stress. Q is right it will be here & over before you know it. Just think of how all this craziness will pay off on August 26th! Everything will be so worth it.

Janie, all us past brides have been there...It is so overwhelming especially with 3 months to go...There is not a day that I didn't have something to do or some place to go...It gets worse too the month before & especially the 2 weeks before!!!!

Find even 10 minutes to chill by yourself & gather your thoughts...You don't want to be stressed that day!!!! Once it is over, you will have so much of your free time back

I know the feeling, but once it's over, that is it....so really, enjoy the process. Your wedding should be a journey, not a destination.

All this stress is just not worth it. You have 85 days, so space things out and make time for the most important things, you and your FH.

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Posted by miss_qiana

Janie don't stress! Trust me your day will be here before you know it and you will finally have your life back.

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I agree sweetie.... don't stress!!

I am right up there with you date twin. I think at any moment I could snap.

Things are bound to fall in place. Just remember why you are doing all this....that usually helps me out.

Hope you feel better!

Aww Janie! I know exactly how you feel since I had like three weddings and parties to go to within the past few weeks and I agree that it is very stressful.

I totally understand how you feel and I don't even have all the weddings to go to that you do. It's like there is no time to breathe and it stinks because I don't REALLY want the wedding to be over but I'm near that point. I hope you do get a little time for yourself in there sometime soon.

But in the meantime....a singing ape? C'mon. That is hysterical! Try to get a laugh out of all the crap going on around you!

Don't worry about it Janie!! It will all work out in the end, and what doesn't get done is the stuff that's not important. Remember, the ONLY thing that matters is that at the end of the day you and FH will be married. That's what it's all about so keep that in mind and it'll help put everything else into perspective.

Oh no....don't stress.


I know exactly how you feel b/c I'm getting married the weekend before you and there's a million things to do.
But soon enough you'll be a married and you can get back to all the simple things that you want to do!