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I can't make up my mind....please help...

nickipa Posted:

I can't make up my mind....please help...

...so I've been a big fan of David Gray and love his music. I really want to use one of his songs for my 1st dance, but my cousin used it 4 years ago for her 1st dance---the only reason i remember is because i loooove the song so much! FH thinks we should just use it, but I don't want to be a copier---its not a super 'mainstream' wedding song and I don't know what to do!!!

beaviss80 Posted:

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if you love it, use it! guests usually never remember what song people used, and even if they do remember your cousin used it what are thet going to say? go for it

eunicsd006 Posted:

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if u like it u should use it. ur cousin wasnt the first nor the last to use the song so its not like ur really copying her besides im sure ur cousin wont be mad....itll be great

sr081906 Posted:

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Your cousin used it... so what?

Use it if you like it.
MrsH1156 Posted:

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I say use it.
sami Posted:

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Use it.. the only person who will most likely remember anything is your cousin... Just use it!

shellibean Posted:

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Use it if you love it so much! It's not as if your cousin's wedding was four months ago, and maybe some relatives would remember the song. If it's what truly fits you and FH, I say use it! Which song, I love David Gray??

nickipa Posted:

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Posted by shellibean

Use it if you love it so much! It's not as if your cousin's wedding was four months ago, and maybe some relatives would remember the song. If it's what truly fits you and FH, I say use it! Which song, I love David Gray??



The song is 'this years love'
debsey75 Posted:

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I say use it.
moonlitee Posted:

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If you love it use it. No one is going to remember it was her song 4 years ago. Most people couldn't tell you what happended at the wedding they went to last weekend. Also, they don't own the song!

Aly0124 Posted:

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I say use it. The only people who will know are you and your cousin. I don't think she will care. Besides, there really aren't that many good first dance songs. We're all bound to choose to same ones!

maria5-6-05 Posted:

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Definitely use it!

pigs222seal Posted:

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If you love it, use it............no one will remember but your cousin. I am sure she won't be happy and they will probably gossip about it for a few days..........but tough - they'll get over it!!!

bethnsul2000 Posted:

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I love that song too...just use it...it's not a copy because it is your song and your wedding not theirs

Smiles111 Posted:

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Posted by eunicsd006

if u like it u should use it. ur cousin wasnt the first nor the last to use the song so its not like ur really copying her besides im sure ur cousin wont be mad....itll be great



ditto!
NovemberBride06 Posted:

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Posted by moonlitee

If you love it use it. No one is going to remember it was her song 4 years ago. Most people couldn't tell you what happended at the wedding they went to last weekend. Also, they don't own the song!



I agree. I just went to a wedding 2 weeks ago and I couldn't tell you what their wedding song was. The only person who will notice is your cousin.
FrogGirl0917 Posted:

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She used it 4 years ago - even if it was 4 days ago - you like the song so use it!!

Tina120206 Posted:

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Posted by shellibean

Use it if you love it so much! It's not as if your cousin's wedding was four months ago, and maybe some relatives would remember the song. If it's what truly fits you and FH, I say use it! Which song, I love David Gray??



The song is 'this years love'



That's our song too, our band is learning it. They didn't know it.

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