I can't stand my FMIL!!!!! Ahhh!!! (long VENT)
Ahhhhhhhhh!!!! My FMIL is the most evil person I have ever met in my life!!! I always had the feeling that she did not like me. She'd always make stupid, vulgar remarks and always find ways to insult me in front of people or just in general. No matter how bad she treated me, I never, ever told FH how I really felt about her. I just sucked it up in hopes that she would change. It wasnt until recently that she just blew my lid and I finally told FH that I thought his mother was a jealous witch. She was constantly causing fights between us. She was the reason my New Years was ruined.
Well, yesterday FH was talking to his grandma and she blatantly asked 'While you were in Iraq.. What do you think that little girl of yours was doing?!?!?' (Implying that I was cheating on him!!!) She was talking all this crap about me (without even knowing me) and told FH that if she lived near me she would follow me like a detective. I wish she would have so she could have seen me work all day then go to school until 10pm. Then FMIL started yelling and telling him that was cheating on him and that she nor the rest of her family was going to the wedding cuz she had already booked a trip to the Domincan Republic for 2 weeks so she could have her own little wedding with her new boyfriend and would not be coming home until August 14th. We get married on the 13th!!!!![]()
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How dare they say those things about me when they dont even live near me or know me!! They were not there when I cried in bed every night when he was away. They were not there when I spent all my weekends at home crying cuz I wished he was home with me. How dare they acuse me of such things. Of course, FH did not believe her cuz he knows how she is. If anything she's the one who has always cheated on her past husband's!! All 3 of them! She knew our wedding date since July... and she knew since a month ago I was using FH's little brother and sister in the bridal party. How could she do that to her son on purpose?? What kinda mother could say such a thing to her first born?? She hasnt involved herself or called me to see how the planning is going. NOTHING!
I have never said anything to insult her but this was the last straw. I called her and asked her what kinda mother could do such a thing to her first son?!?!.... and she hung up on me!!! So I called her back and told the Stupid biatch to go to hell. Bleh!! I was soo sad I cried. More because for FH cuz I felt bad for him, but also because I was insulted in being called a floozy when all Ive ever done is love her son unconditionally and stuck with him when times were the worst in his life.![]()
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Well, yesterday FH was talking to his grandma and she blatantly asked 'While you were in Iraq.. What do you think that little girl of yours was doing?!?!?' (Implying that I was cheating on him!!!) She was talking all this crap about me (without even knowing me) and told FH that if she lived near me she would follow me like a detective. I wish she would have so she could have seen me work all day then go to school until 10pm. Then FMIL started yelling and telling him that was cheating on him and that she nor the rest of her family was going to the wedding cuz she had already booked a trip to the Domincan Republic for 2 weeks so she could have her own little wedding with her new boyfriend and would not be coming home until August 14th. We get married on the 13th!!!!
How dare they say those things about me when they dont even live near me or know me!! They were not there when I cried in bed every night when he was away. They were not there when I spent all my weekends at home crying cuz I wished he was home with me. How dare they acuse me of such things. Of course, FH did not believe her cuz he knows how she is. If anything she's the one who has always cheated on her past husband's!! All 3 of them! She knew our wedding date since July... and she knew since a month ago I was using FH's little brother and sister in the bridal party. How could she do that to her son on purpose?? What kinda mother could say such a thing to her first born?? She hasnt involved herself or called me to see how the planning is going. NOTHING!
I have never said anything to insult her but this was the last straw. I called her and asked her what kinda mother could do such a thing to her first son?!?!.... and she hung up on me!!! So I called her back and told the Stupid biatch to go to hell. Bleh!! I was soo sad I cried. More because for FH cuz I felt bad for him, but also because I was insulted in being called a floozy when all Ive ever done is love her son unconditionally and stuck with him when times were the worst in his life.
