I cant stop crying

Jerry just told me that he is having 2nd thoughts about getting married. I have no idea where this is coming from. Yes- lately we have been having arguments about stupid little things but I am taking it as wedding stress and other stress thats in our lifes right now.
I am hoping it just a little cold feet.
Can I ask for your LIW prayers that things will all straighten out

ohhh Celia Im sure he doesnt mean it- hes prob just getting nervous. Hope things will work out.

you have my prayers.

but, please know that FH and I have been going through something similar....not 'second thoughts' , but we've been fighting a lot more since getting engaged...getting on each other's nerves more, and i know that i've been getting hurt much more easily at little things. I think it's the natural process of, 'oh, shytt, this is REAL, we are really doing this...'etc.

sometimes, too, especially for the guys, the wedding seems to take on a life of it's own, and they see it as something thats getting sooooo big...i think it scares their little male testosterone-flooded brains.


I'm sure if u give it some time he will remember why he fell in love with you in the first place, and things will all work out.

best of luck, i'm praying for u :)

Things are going to work out. Just take some time for the two of you minus any wedding talk.

you are in my prayers
I'm sure it will all work out.

I've found that I've been more uptight than usual during this whole planning thing. Take some time to sort out your thoughts and feelings and figure out why you guys have been at odds lately.
Each minute must feel like eternity now, but breathe, relax and try to remember why it is you two wanted to spend your lives together in the first place...
Please feel free to reach out if you need ANYTHING!

oh no. I am so sorry. I hope everything works out. Did he explain what brought this about? I hope it's just the stress of everything. We are here for you

Celia, if you need anything at all, feel free to FM me.

Sorry! i hope you guys get thru this time with positive results, you are def in my prayers......major hugs for you!

Celia, if you need to talk, feel free to FM me. FH and I have been fighting a lot lately too and had a very long talk yesterday because I too had been having doubts.

Hope everything works out

ohhh Celia. I am sure that he wants to marry you, the stress is most likely getting to him, take a little break from planning! I know it will get better!