I could use an answer ASAP!!!

Re: Showers. Who has been to or has had/will have assigned seating? I was making menus, putting each guest's name on the front, but I don't want to offend anyone, making them sit where they don't want. It's just that I tried some other ideas, for the front of my DIY menus, and the name one looked nice. Thanks!!!! Mary MOB

Every shower I have ever been to has had assigned seating except for one and let me tell you..the one that didn't have assigned seating was a disaster.

I think it is much easier if you just assign the seats and put people with who you know they would want to be with.

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Posted by MirabellaNYC

I've never been to a shower that had assigned seating, but I do think it would simplify things quite a bit, especially of there are many people invited.

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Thanks, Jen!!! My other Daughter seemed to frown on the assigned seating. Although, I do plan to have Donna and her BM's at a head table. I could put their names on but leave the rest blank, but I really thought the blank space needed something. Suggestions? Mary MOB

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Posted by nraboni

Every shower I have ever been to has had assigned seating except for one and let me tell you..the one that didn't have assigned seating was a disaster.

I think it is much easier if you just assign the seats and put people with who you know they would want to be with.

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Thanks, Nicole!!!! Well, I don't really know everyone. I guess I could ask Donna's FSIL, to give me some ideas. Mary MOB

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Posted by donnasmom09

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Posted by nraboni

Every shower I have ever been to has had assigned seating except for one and let me tell you..the one that didn't have assigned seating was a disaster.

I think it is much easier if you just assign the seats and put people with who you know they would want to be with.

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Thanks, Nicole!!!! Well, I don't really know everyone. I guess I could ask Donna's FSIL, to give me some ideas. Mary MOB

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How about you do your side and have FSIL do the other side.

As for the empty space on the menu...how about a picture of Donna and FH?

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

ive never been to one with assigned seating... everyone finds a spot... why bother... those who dont know one another can now get a chance to lol

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Thanks, Gina!!!!! Mary MOB

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Posted by nraboni

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Posted by donnasmom09

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Posted by nraboni

Every shower I have ever been to has had assigned seating except for one and let me tell you..the one that didn't have assigned seating was a disaster.

I think it is much easier if you just assign the seats and put people with who you know they would want to be with.

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Thanks, Nicole!!!! Well, I don't really know everyone. I guess I could ask Donna's FSIL, to give me some ideas. Mary MOB

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How about you do your side and have FSIL do the other side.

As for the empty space on the menu...how about a picture of Donna and FH?

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Great idea, Nicole!!!! Thanks!!! Mary MOB

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Posted by gina409

i have never been to a shower with assigned seating...i thin its fine either way..sorry im no help

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Well it's nice of you to drop by anyway, Gina!!!! Mary MOB

I've never been to a shower with assigned seating,,but to each their own, ya know??

As for the blank space what about putting the shower date?

Never been to shower without assigned seats and I couldnt imagine it b.c I know in my family that would cause fights(all the old people/grannys would want to be in the front to see the gifts etc)

What a picture of Donna when she was a little girl?

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Posted by CNC4eva3402

I've never been to a shower with assigned seating,,but to each their own, ya know??

As for the blank space what about putting the shower date?

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Thanks, Christy. Already printed that on the inside. Mary MOB

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Posted by lolalovesacroat

Never been to shower without assigned seats and I couldnt imagine it b.c I know in my family that would cause fights(all the old people/grannys would want to be in the front to see the gifts etc)

What a picture of Donna when she was a little girl?

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Thanks, 'Lola'!!! Hmmm, I think I should run a poll. Be right back!!!! Mary MOB

Im having assigned seating at mine too. I know it doesnt matter but its also nice when you know your gonna be able to sit with someone you know and not alone. I mean its not a problem to get to know other people but if all your friends are at one table and your alone cause you got there a little late and all the seats were taken it might be a bit uncomfortable! just my opinion

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Posted by coldasice217

The only shower I've been to was my sister's, and there was assigned seating, and believe you me it was a situation that warranted that, and I think it made things so much more comfortable. Personally, I like the idea of table numbers and assigned seating.

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Thanks, Ali!!!!! Appreciate that input!!! Mary MOB

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Posted by jeanettelovesjason

Im having assigned seating at mine too. I know it doesnt matter but its also nice when you know your gonna be able to sit with someone you know and not alone. I mean its not a problem to get to know other people but if all your friends are at one table and your alone cause you got there a little late and all the seats were taken it might be a bit uncomfortable! just my opinion

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Thanks, Jeanette!!!! Appreciate that viewpoint!!!!! Mary MOB