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I don't speak to my future father in law..

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Sep 17, 2002 10:36 AM+

Ronnie&Theresa MEMBER SINCE: 9/02 TOTAL POSTS : 7121 WEDDING DATE: Mar 07, 1995

Posted: Sep 17, 2002 10:36 AM

I don't speak to my future father in law..

He and I will never speak nor will I invite him to my wedding..

Do you think this is unfair..

NuBride Posted: Sep 17, 2002 10:47 AM+

NuBride MEMBER SINCE: 11/01 TOTAL POSTS : 1343 WEDDING DATE: Aug 03, 2001

Posted: Sep 17, 2002 10:47 AM

Re: I don't speak to my future father in law..

I got one better I don't speak to my father and he didn't walk me down the isle, but this is your FIL and depending on the relationship your FH has with his dad, this could affect you down the road. I am also assuming your FH is o.k. with his father not coming to the wedding, just remember if and when they kiss and make-up you will be the 'bad guy'.
Good Luck.

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Sep 17, 2002 11:05 AM+

Ronnie&Theresa MEMBER SINCE: 9/02 TOTAL POSTS : 7121 WEDDING DATE: Mar 07, 1995

Posted: Sep 17, 2002 11:05 AM

Re: I don't speak to my future father in law..

Thanks..

They won't make up.. He doesn't care for him either .. No love loss.. He knows what a low life his father is..
I can ramble on and on..

I don't even want the mother there.. It is VERY touchy.. The only reason we are even speaking now is bc the younger brother is sick in the hospital we had to see them.. I don't want them around.. We haven't seen them for a year and I can go for a 100 more!

NuBride Posted: Sep 17, 2002 11:35 AM+

NuBride MEMBER SINCE: 11/01 TOTAL POSTS : 1343 WEDDING DATE: Aug 03, 2001

Posted: Sep 17, 2002 11:35 AM

Re: I don't speak to my future father in law..

Well to answer your question, no it's not unfair,you made up your mind and as long as you and FH are ok with it, do what you feel is best.

lilmrs Posted: Sep 17, 2002 04:51 PM+

lilmrs MEMBER SINCE: 5/02 TOTAL POSTS : 12030 WEDDING DATE: May 17, 2003

Posted: Sep 17, 2002 04:51 PM

Re: I don't speak to my future father in law..

My advice is to not think about it right now. I made my first guest list up back in april. Now that we are getting ready to send out the Save the Dates I am forced to really look at my guest list and I have changed my mind on several people. Why not wait until later when you are forced to see! As I now know first hand, relationships can change.