i don't get people... vent

since dh and i went on our honeymoon the day after we got 'hitched', there were some details that were left for 'later.'

so, this evening, i'm going through cards and envelopes (we only got 4 boxes at the wedding, everything else was $$ in the photocube) to make sure i'm ready for ty cards when the time comes.

so far, so good. i used my original invitation excel spreadsheat to keep track, filling in fields of who gave what.

here is where i got 'not-so-happy'.... my dear new sister-in-law (whose husband bailed on playing at our wedding) DIDN'T EVEN BOTHER GIVING HER LITTLE BROTHER A 'CONGRATS' GREETING CARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE???!!!! don't get me wrong... i don't want or need their money... thank God. but i just don't get it... people who weren't able to make our wedding sent us gifts with lovely cards with lovely notes. THIS IS MY DH'S SISTER... NOT A STRANGER!!!! she didn't even bother to go to hallmark and get a $.99 card to say congrats.

because of what her husband did, we had and extra $2100 bill. he told dh that he would come to the wedding... he didn't. so i paid another $125 for his plate that no one was there to eat. AND THEN HIS SISTER DOESN'T EVEN GET A PIECE OF CARDSTOCK, FOLD IT, AND WRITE CONGRATS.

i have a few friends who don't have much/anything, and they were able to get their a$$ to hallmark and get us a card.

ok. i feel better to get this off my chest.

thanks for reading