I don't get some people

fmil and fsil strike again. My fh and I did our DJ forms last night cause they were due and his mother kept bugging us to put a song on the list cause his 35 year old sister wanted it. I said no cause I hated the song and so did my fh but my fmil and fsil won't let it go. I put the song on the do not play list a while ago cause I hate the song. The DJ said when we first made up the contract that he will not play anything anyone requests that is on the do not play list and he will not even come and ask us cause he knows the day of the wedding we shouldn't be bothered with this stuff. Fmil has been fighting with me and fh about this issue since last night and is going to keep pushing this issue until we give in.I don't get why some people won't let the bride and groom enjoy there wedding planning with out adding stress onto it. Wedding planning is stressful enough. I just wish they would stay out of our wedding planning my family hasn't tried to tell us what to do my family says do what you want and get what you want it is your day it is about you and your fh and the day is all yours. Thank God I have a good DJ that will listen to whatever I want to be played and what I don't want to be played. Sorry for the long vent needed to get it out. Wedding planning is not easy and brings the worst out in people. Other then that I am enjoying my wedding planning. happy planning

MY Question is: What songs are you ladies not having played because you or your fh hate it? Have you had anyone fight you on the songs you do not want played?