I don't know what to do anymore....

I am so upset right now. A mix of anger and sadness.

A few weeks ago my mom told me, Pick a date for the shower. I chose the date and then booked plane tickets to Ohio. (The shower is there since that is where I am from). FH and I then told friends and family about the date so people could make arrangements. FH and I both took off time from work.

So today, my sister calls and tells me I must change she shower date bc she has a wedding to go to. Well.. basically I told her that was crap we have everything already arranged for June 17. I call my mother, she starts going off basically on how selfish I am for not changing the date to accommodate my sister. Sorry but last time I checked she was NOT the bride.

So now my sister, who is my MOH, has choosen NOT to attend the shower. My mom seems to think I am the reason for this and is upset at ME.

This is just one of the many times I have felt **** on by her and my sister. FH HATES my mother now and is on the verge of calling her to tell her what he thinks.

At this point I really don't know what to say. FH really feels like he should call my mom and speak his peace but I really think this is only going to cause fuel to the fire..

Thanks for reading.